theadventure50120 Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Ok i been posting as guest for a while and now made an account. Me and my gf have been split up for 2weeks now , i deleted her from eveything a week ago , and she asked me if she could have some things she left , i took 3days to answer , which i just done now. Last night she found out i had been hanging around with someone who is a girl , and she didn't like it and called me something i won't say , and said all her ex's are ***** and i didn't take long to replace her. What does she want me to do? Sit around miserable? I don't know what to do...also she made a blog on one of her profiles saying this... OK, so i'm single again **dances** i love it. I can do what I wan, with out feeling like i have to be somewhere, with someone [no offence to anyone in particular] I love how if I can't be bothered to go out, i don't have to. I don't think I'll ever settle down, i love single life far too much. For now i will concentrate on the things i want to do... I have no one to say oh is it ok if i do this to anymore I'm looking into paramedic training which I determined to do. She also thinks i have been doing things with this other girl and she is pissed off...what do i do?
Author theadventure50120 Posted October 15, 2006 Author Posted October 15, 2006 She dumped me , reason being what she wrote in her blog.
Josalina Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 right sweetie first and foremost SHE DUMPED U! so u have have nothing to worry about, she don't need to know anything about this other girl, she finished it with u, u r now single and u can do what u want when u want and she don't like it. secondly, do u still have feelings for her? and by that i mean would u get back with her, as everyone still has feelings for an ex as u have once been with them but if u still have feelings for her making her jealous believe it or not will help, as she will see another woman taking her place so u can leave it to go one or both ways. 1) leave her to get jealous over nothing, as u don't have to explain anything to her at all. 2) tell her the other woman is just a friend, however personally i don't think she needs to know that. keep telling yourself you have nothing to feel guilty for you have done nothing wrong.
Josalina Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 also her profile just sums up what sort of person she is, quite frankly let her get on with it, u will have the last laugh. if she enjoys being single so much, laugh as she will be going out getting drunk and doing whatever else she has to do for a no strings attached thing and then people with start to wonder why she hasn't got anyone. they will realise u r far to good for her and deserve someone who actually wants a proper relationship. u r doing the right thing, just ignore her.
Author theadventure50120 Posted October 15, 2006 Author Posted October 15, 2006 Ok i just been told off family that she was seen kissing another guy (her ex bf my sister told me) last night which is being a hypicrit after what she accused me of , i got told he went one way and she went ther other with her mother , she told me she realizes she doesnt need a bf but a close mate and he slept over that night and talked alot, which is obivously she is trying to bother me. I have been getting wierd calls on my home phone where they dont say nothing and someone signed into my msn twice one night , i changedm y password after this. She doesnt want to stay friends now because it will mess things up , she seems like a complete nut case to me. She said she isnt bothered what i do , yet she brings it up about that girl. I fear if i lose all contact she will come back somehow.
Guest Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Ok so i hate her now , she said she slept with someone last night , that completey destroyed my trust in her because i said that's not the way to go when we split. She said she wants a close friend not a bf , lol yeah right. Someone to sleep with more like it , and not the same person everytime. Either she is saying this because i am hanging around with a girl or she really did do it , im going with she really did do it because my family said the yseen her kiss another guy. She said he stayed the night... So yeah i hate her now , she isn't worth it.
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