Confuggled_one Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Guys, have you ever been in a situation where someone likes you and has been there for you but you dont like them in return? have they ever requested a no contact break if you guys are Just friends? tell me what you think ty
memati Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 If you are just friends then there would be no need for a no contact break.
Author Confuggled_one Posted October 24, 2006 Author Posted October 24, 2006 that's what i thought, however she cannot control the way she feeels and is difficult because she has been there for me.. but i keep tellin her that i don tlike her.. i told her this since the beginning.. but she just cant accept it and wants to go on NC
phyrespryte Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 that's what i thought, however she cannot control the way she feeels and is difficult because she has been there for me.. but i keep tellin her that i don tlike her.. i told her this since the beginning.. but she just cant accept it and wants to go on NC So let her have it! She's being honest by letting you know that she can't be your friend without hoping for more. And it's probably killing her that you don't feel the same. It sucks that you'll lose your friend, but if you care for her at all. Let her be. It'll be better for her.
Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Guys, have you ever been in a situation where someone likes you and has been there for you but you dont like them in return? have they ever requested a no contact break if you guys are Just friends? tell me what you think ty just tell her again that u dont like her , n tell her she is not the one u r looking 4 , if she wants 2 b ur frnd let then keep frndship with her its ok. I also have same probs but b clear abt ur intentions.
ScorpioLady Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 One thing she will appreciate is honesty. I am in a similar situation with a guy who i really like who clearly has no feeligns for me. She obviously thinks that NC could make you change how you feel about her or it could just be too painful for her to be around you when her feelings are so strong for you. If you care about her enough agree to this and maybe she'll realise your feelings arent going to change and that you care for her as a friend and if she needs you that your still guna be there as it was her choice for NC. I think thats what i would like to hear if i was her anyway. Hope it works out for you
Moai Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Let her go, man. I know this sounds shallow, but why are you friends with a girl you wouldn't date? I mean, I am friends with girls I wouldn't date but I don't think any of them know me well enough to fall for me--and I keep it that way. I have never been close friends with a woman that I didn't want to date at some level. Why don't you want to date her?
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