booswig Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Ok, so me and this girl have been dating for just under 3 months now. I really feel affection towards her and could even say I love her but I haven't. Im only 18 and she is a year younger than me so to put things in perspective I obviously have no intentions of marriage right now. Anyway the problem stands with her still having feelings for her first love which lives in another country and I am not sure what I am meant to do about this =\ She last saw him just under a year ago and it doesn't seem probable she plans to see him very soon. I have always been afraid of being in a situation like this. I know she likes me i do because she has told me and i realise she would not be in a relationship if she didnt, but i dont know if it's more than this other guy. Do i wait it out because its too soon to be worrying? Do i ask her how deeply she feels about me and/or tell her how deeply i feel about her? Do i close the book and move on with my life without her? those are the only things i can think of!!!!!!!!! i am in complete distress on this one cause i really like her ALOT... anyway hope some of you can help me out
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