PEARLEN Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 I Wish I Could Tell Him, But I Would Like To Be On This Earth For A Long Time.he Has Done Me The Same Way Only Differance Is He Broke Up With Me And Wouldnt Tell Me Why He Was Breaking Up With Me.and At That Time He Was Leading Me On, If He Would Have Just Said I Want To See Other People It Would Have Been Ok.but He Kept Saying Its Work He Need To Focus On.but He Wasnt Focused On Work He Was With Someone Eles.if I Were To Tell Him I Want To See Other People He Would Flip Out And Wouldnt Take Me Back.hes The Type Of Person That He Can Do It,and Say It To You But You Cant Do It To Him.when I Finally Found Out That It Was Another Girl I Still Let Him Breathe.and I Took Him Back.because I Know Some Times People Need Some Time To Think Of Where They Want To Be.then After The Fact..he Gave Me An Std. I Dont Do Tit For Tat Things But If He Had Time To Figure Out Where He Wanted To Be,why Cant I.i Just Cant Tell Him.
lovernotafighter Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 I'm not sure whats going on with your post here,sound kinda like your rambling. the only thing I discerned was that your man gave you a STD...in that case Id rip his balls off..just my opinion
Author PEARLEN Posted October 15, 2006 Author Posted October 15, 2006 lovernotifighter, you have to find my other post.the whole story is there
GreenEyedLady Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Wow Pearlen...how can you type the first letter of every word as a capital? That must have taken some serious time... My biggest question with your post is why are you still with him and why do you still want to be with him??? Could he possibly hurt you more than he already has?
Author PEARLEN Posted October 16, 2006 Author Posted October 16, 2006 Wow Pearlen...how can you type the first letter of every word as a capital? That must have taken some serious time... My biggest question with your post is why are you still with him and why do you still want to be with him??? Could he possibly hurt you more than he already has? WE HAVE BEEN THREW A LOT TOGETHER I DONT WANT TO FEEL LIKE IM THROWING IT ALL AWAY.WE STARTED WITH NOTHING BUT CARE FOR EACHOTHER,I HELPED HIM BE A BETTER PERSON,GET HIS TRUCKING JOB AND NOW OUR OWN APARTMENT.I CANT WALK AWAY FROM HIM NOW HELL CRACK.MY SON LOOKS UP TO HIM AS HIS FATHER.AND I DONT WANT TO BREAK THAT BOND.HALF OF ME WANT TO STAY WITH HIM BECAUSE OF MY SON AND I KNOW HE IS CAPABLE OF CHANGE.(he has came this far).HE USE TO BE A LOT WORST.BUT I STUCK BY HIS SIDE AND TOLD HIM HE CAN GET OVER HIS ANGER PROBLEM.NOW HES HALF WAY THERE.WHILE HES TRYING TO CHANGE,NOW IT SEEMS THAT I ALSO HAVE CHANGED.FOR THE LAST TWO MONTHS THIS FAMILY FRIEND,it seems,IS WHAT IVE BEEN NEEDING.HE CAN TOUCH ME AND I FEEL LIKE .MY MAN HAS NEVER GIVEN ME THAT.MY MAN DOES THE BABY TALK AND EVERY THING.DONT GET ME WRONG ITS OK SOME TIMES BUT DURING "SHEET MOVING",I DONT THINK SO. WE ARE GETTING OLDER AND THAT MESS IS GETTING ON MY NERVES.IVE TALKED TO HIM BOUT IT BUT HES NOT GETTING IT.MY MAN CAN BE PASSIONET SOMETIMES, BUT THE WAY THIS FAMILY FRIEND IS......OH MY GOD!HE MAKE YOU WANNA SLAP YO MAMA FOR NOT TELLING YOU ABOUT THIS TYPE OF FEELING.ITS SO MUCH MORE I COULD TELL YOU BUT WE NEED TELEPHONES FOR MY LONG STORY.BUT SOME ONE PLEASE HELP,IM TORN IN BETWEEN FOR WHATS BEST.
everlong Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 ahhhhhhhh...so the quality of the old slap n tickle is the determinate factor...interesting. why don't you let old lame sheet wetter sit in one the next session with mountain man and give him a cayron and a note pad, and let him take down some pointers - then you can keep checking out both until they both reach the same level of sexually pleasing you [which is obviously important] and that's when you tell then you wanna keep both and just have 3somes from now on. just a crazy thought
Author PEARLEN Posted October 16, 2006 Author Posted October 16, 2006 ahhhhhhhh...so the quality of the old slap n tickle is the determinate factor...interesting. why don't you let old lame sheet wetter sit in one the next session with mountain man and give him a cayron and a note pad, and let him take down some pointers - then you can keep checking out both until they both reach the same level of sexually pleasing you [which is obviously important] and that's when you tell then you wanna keep both and just have 3somes from now on. just a crazy thought you know what? i kinda wish it could be like that.then it wouldnt be a problem.would there?
stillhere Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 ahhhhhhhh...so the quality of the old slap n tickle is the determinate factor...interesting. why don't you let old lame sheet wetter sit in one the next session with mountain man and give him a cayron and a note pad, and let him take down some pointers - then you can keep checking out both until they both reach the same level of sexually pleasing you [which is obviously important] and that's when you tell then you wanna keep both and just have 3somes from now on. just a crazy thought Great advice neverlong..............NOT!!! If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all!!!! Pearlen....YOU can't change a man. He has to change himself. You are only setting yourself up for a world of hurt, and he will continue to cheat on you. Leave "your man" and this family friend alone. You will only continue to get hurt in the long run. He's already brought you home an STD, hopefully it's one that won't stay with you for the rest of your life. There are other fish in the sea. Stop torturing yourself.
everlong Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 i am not trying to be mean...just trying to get people in a tough situation to relax a bit - humour helps relieve stress you know... i am not making fun of anyone...i do that to myself all the time
Author PEARLEN Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 i am not trying to be mean...just trying to get people in a tough situation to relax a bit - humour helps relieve stress you know... i am not making fun of anyone...i do that to myself all the time thanx for the humour:D
Author PEARLEN Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 Great advice neverlong..............NOT!!! If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all!!!! Pearlen....YOU can't change a man. He has to change himself. You are only setting yourself up for a world of hurt, and he will continue to cheat on you. Leave "your man" and this family friend alone. You will only continue to get hurt in the long run. He's already brought you home an STD, hopefully it's one that won't stay with you for the rest of your life. There are other fish in the sea. Stop torturing yourself. WHY WOULD I LEAVE THE FAMILY FRIEND? HES THE ONE WHO IS BEING THERE FOR ME.I KNOW I NEED TO LEAVE MY MAN,SO I JUST THROW EVERYTHING OUT THE WINDOW THINKING THAT IT CANT BE FIXED?HES DONE A LOT OF IMPROVMENT IN THE LAST YEAR.ITS JUST IVE CHANGED AND I DONT KNOW TO STAY WHERE I KNOW MY SON HAVE A LIFE OR LET IT GO.
Author PEARLEN Posted October 18, 2006 Author Posted October 18, 2006 IT SEEMS,THE FAMILY FRIEND, EVERY DAY IT GETS DEEPER AND DEEPER BUT NOT ON A RELATIONSHIP BASES.THE WAY HE DOES THINGS TO ME.... I HAVE TO STAND BACK AND SEE IF THIS IS FEELING THAT DAMN GOOD..... IS THIS REALY HAPPENING? I KNOW AT THIS POINT,I FEEL I CAN'T STOP.I LOVE MY MAN VERY MUCH ,HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME,BUT THIS FAMILY FRIEND IS PUTIN A HURTIN ON ME THAT MY MAN JUST DON'T DO.I THOUGHT ALL THIS TIME I'VE BEEN SEXUALY SATISFIED BY MY MAN......NOW THINGS ARE DIFFERENT SINCE HES BEEN OVER THE ROAD.I KNOW IF HE WASNT OVER THE ROAD,I WOUDN'T BE GOING THROUGH THIS.I HATE THAT I'M DOING THIS TO MY MAN.INSPITE OF ALL HE HAS DONE TO ME,IN THE PAST, I'M A VERY FORGIVING PERSON.AND HE HAS CHANGED I LOT.FOR HIS SELF AND FOR ME.NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN...IT FEELS LIKE I'M...CATCHING FEELINGS
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