amgine Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 I've not seen my MM in about 10 days. With my new shift, its been easier not to see him. Though i expect there will be times when i will bump into him. He loves near me, thats why i can't do NC to the letter, maybe minimal contact. I'm fine most of the time, when i'm busy at work, busy outside of work. But there are times when i'm not busy. Days off are the worst, so is nighttime. so how do you get through those times when he enters your mind when you are not busy, you can chat/go out with yoyur friends but there is always going to be those moments when you stumble. Though the sensible side of me can see the bonus of this, i'll not see him much if at all, but at the same time i'm tempted to accidentally bump into him but i haven't so far.
BUTAFLY Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 you can always get online and type out your feelings. There are plenty of us here that knows what your going through. Me included with dealing seeing MM at work. It took alot of time to train myself to not think of him. Its been 1 1/2 yrs and he still creeps in my thoughts (mostly thinking how he is, what he's doing) but I shake it off...channel surf, pick up a book, call a friend and shoot the breeze. Its gonna be a long road but it gets better.
Author amgine Posted October 14, 2006 Author Posted October 14, 2006 Thanks for that I have often thought of that but hate boring people with the same old story, and only post when it gets really bad. I still read the other posts here and yes a lot of it is familiar. The things he says when i see him things he does to get my attention. The last time i saw him, i was in a queue (he wasn't in a queue) he was waving at me frantically (to get my attention) gesturing to me. There were 2 young women in front of me who looked round. Obviously they'd noticed what he was doing. So they looked to see who was behind them. It was quite embarassing. But they didn't say anything, well i didn't know them
Green Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 you should cope by moving on, start new relationships meet new people change.
everlong Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 sorry for being a dumbass but what is MM [is it Married Man?] - am I correct in thinking you are talking about an affair you are having with a MM? or are you his wife?
Author amgine Posted October 14, 2006 Author Posted October 14, 2006 everlong yes MM is married man Not quite an affair (i'm not the wife) in that nothing has happened physically. Yes there was some flirting, touching, hugging. I found he was married, he continued to flirt. i just remained my usual friendly self. We became close (but not that close) we would have many conversations a lot of talking if he saw me about a lot of time he would loiter about so he could talk with me. I guess like friends would do. Because i had misread signs in the past didn't want to jump the gun if he was just a friendly guy. But we've become friends and we've shared stuff together.
Recommended Posts