princesskat Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 I need some ones advice...preferbly from some guys. I have been seeing a guy from work for the past 5 weeks. We see each other at work everyday and of weekends he invites me to stay at his. I have not invited him to stay with me as i am unsure how to perserve this "relationship'. We have great sex with each other and enjoy each others company very much but about a week ago he told me that he is not looking for a relationship i.e boyfriend/girlfriend as he just wants to see how things are going and is happy with the way things are now. We have agreed that while we are sleeping together that we wont be sleeping with other people. He told me that if someone asks me out on a date i should go, but i am not like that..if i am seeing one person i dont go seeing another. He also told me that he doesn't want us to be waiting around for each others txt, so one time i didnt respond to his txt and the next day he was saying how he waited for me to reply!!!! I confronted him and said we were not meant to wait for each others txt and that it was his rule we were playing by and he was first to break it!... all he could say was 'i can't help it' He is confusing me! He is very funy, sweet guy and gives me a lot of attention, i just wonder sometimes if he is not wanting any more cause he is a) scared of commitment, b) wiating for something better to come along or c) just wanting me forthe sex. At work we act very proffessional, people havent got a clue about what is going on and I want to keep it that way, as I could get in trouble (i think). Last week he asked m to come over, he took me to the cinema and after which we had a very 'conecting' sex session. I felt like we were connecting and am slowly falling for him....what do i do....i want more out of this and would like him to chase after me. I think he has it easy as it is me always coming over. I broke up with my ex of 3.5 years 2 months ago and the new guy said we should see how things go as he doesnt want to be a rebound (which he is def. not) and he just wants to see how it goes... how long should i wait..... i just want to know if i should move on or wait around for him...i am also scared to confront him as i dont want to scare him off. Please let me know what you think.......
alphamale Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 At work we act very proffessional, people havent got a clue about what is going on ....... That's what you think.
Pyro Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 I need some ones advice...preferbly from some guys. I have been seeing a guy from work for the past 5 weeks. We see each other at work everyday and of weekends he invites me to stay at his. I have not invited him to stay with me as i am unsure how to perserve this "relationship'. We have great sex with each other and enjoy each others company very much but about a week ago he told me that he is not looking for a relationship i.e boyfriend/girlfriend as he just wants to see how things are going and is happy with the way things are now. We have agreed that while we are sleeping together that we wont be sleeping with other people. He told me that if someone asks me out on a date i should go, but i am not like that..if i am seeing one person i dont go seeing another. He also told me that he doesn't want us to be waiting around for each others txt, so one time i didnt respond to his txt and the next day he was saying how he waited for me to reply!!!! I confronted him and said we were not meant to wait for each others txt and that it was his rule we were playing by and he was first to break it!... all he could say was 'i can't help it' He is confusing me! He is very funy, sweet guy and gives me a lot of attention, i just wonder sometimes if he is not wanting any more cause he is a) scared of commitment, b) wiating for something better to come along or c) just wanting me forthe sex. At work we act very proffessional, people havent got a clue about what is going on and I want to keep it that way, as I could get in trouble (i think). Last week he asked m to come over, he took me to the cinema and after which we had a very 'conecting' sex session. I felt like we were connecting and am slowly falling for him....what do i do....i want more out of this and would like him to chase after me. I think he has it easy as it is me always coming over. I broke up with my ex of 3.5 years 2 months ago and the new guy said we should see how things go as he doesnt want to be a rebound (which he is def. not) and he just wants to see how it goes... how long should i wait..... i just want to know if i should move on or wait around for him...i am also scared to confront him as i dont want to scare him off. Please let me know what you think....... Chances are if he is telling you that its ok for you to date other people, then he is not thinking long term with you and only wants you for sex. He doesn't sound all that interested in being commited to you only.
quietintrovertgirl Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 Women need to finally realize .We can't seperate casual sex/booty call sex and our feeling but men can.
Author princesskat Posted October 14, 2006 Author Posted October 14, 2006 sound like i have nothing to hope for....so what do i do...tell him what i am feeling?? or just keep dating him to see how things go. He has told me he cares for me, would like to come to my house and has planned things for us in the coming month... really confused....
Rooster_DAR Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 Cut him off, he will probably freak out then.
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