Guest Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 A very close male friend of mine told me yesterday that I was his perfect companion and would like to start a relationship with me. I like him so much as well. However, he told me that he has his hesistation cos he is a workaholic and he thinks he is not a good boyfriend becos he cannot spend much time with me and also need some space for himself as well. I didnt know how to respond. He said he is afraid i would be disappointed and he doesnt want to sadden me in the future. He proposed us to try to be in a relationship for 2 months and then reconsider any further development afterwards. I felt so odd but at the same time, i want to try it out cos i like him alot. If you were me, would u say yes or rather be a freind to wait till he wants to settle down? Well he is really a very busy guy, I know the intention of his proposal is really not for the convenience of dating other gals. At the same time, I dont want to compromise that much... its silly to try out a relationship within a certain period of time. isnt it? he is really the ideal one and i did date lots of guys these years... thus its a hard choice. he did mention he is sure he is a good husband and he wants to have a family within 3 years... isnt it weird...
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