Guest Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 my gf broke up with me on monday. shes been really stressed out lately and she says she doesnt have time for me and broke it off. but she talked to a guy the day before she broke it off and continued to everyday. i tried to take her back but she says she doesnt want our relationship "ryte now". even after she told me to just give me a chance to make things all better, she said she doesnt want to believe me, but if she does give me a chance, she still wants to talk to this guy. i asked her why and she said because she thinks this guy is everything she wants in a guy. now she only met this guy for 5 mins at work, he was her customer, and they havent yet met in person... i did soo much for this girl and i want her back SOOO BADLY. now im heartbroken and i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!!! should i keep in contact so she doesnt forget about me, or just let her do her thing?
Josalina Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 u poor thing, u know what leave her to it, you don't need someone like that. easier said than done i know but if u ask me if anyone treats you like that they obviously aren't the person you thought you knew, in which case leave her to be a twitter brain and u can laugh to yourself when she comes running back.
tikigods Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 wanting her back isn't going to be enough, and since she has told you clearly that she doesn't want to be with you and wants to try things with this other guy, my suggestion to you would be go NC and see what happens then. You can't force someone to love you, or want to be with you,
Josalina Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 thats right and with nc you will make her realise u aren't there anymore, making her miss u. let her see if she can live without you, make her miss u. we r here if u need to post.
Rooster_DAR Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 Listen to the other posters, were not here giving advice because we just feel compelled to, we know what works and what doesn't from experience. Lose all contact with her ASAP!
Guest Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 yea, it is hard. the sad part is, the job she had when he met her, im the one who gave it to her. i did her interview over the fone and i knew the managers and they hired her because she was my gf at the time. then i bought her clothes for work because she didnt have money at the time. thats what sux so much. for her to do this to me... its so hard for NC...i want to write a poem about how i feel about all this because i still want her back and give it to her ... but i know i shouldnt.... i just dont know what to do... my friends r telling me shes immature, and i was what she needed so she can grow up and change for the better, but they say she doesnt want to. and i cant make her grow up, she needs to want to... it sux that shes not ready for me yet... her family loves me, and all her friends do too... this sucks...
andy_whitewater Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 man i feel for you. I'm not gonna lie, the next few weeks are gonna be hard. Keep your chin up when you can, cry when you want to, talk to people, go for walks, keep your mind occupied, listen to music, write a poem, write a song, post on here frequently but whatever you do, DO NOT contact her again. Seriously it'll save you so much hurt in the long run good luck peace x
Guest Posted October 15, 2006 Posted October 15, 2006 man i feel for you. I'm not gonna lie, the next few weeks are gonna be hard. Keep your chin up when you can, cry when you want to, talk to people, go for walks, keep your mind occupied, listen to music, write a poem, write a song, post on here frequently but whatever you do, DO NOT contact her again. Seriously it'll save you so much hurt in the long run good luck peace x our lives are so entertwined (if thats how you spell it). i am going to see her in 9 days because she works at the same job as me, not same place, but same district. our job has a district meeting we ALL have to go to. then, we are both in a sorority and fraternity, and our sorority and fraternity has a party together 2 days after the district meeting. then we see each other also at all the other fraternity and sorority events EVERY weekend also... it sucks i have to do NC, but its like i cant do NC...
Josalina Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 ok, look good, smell good and look very happy. secondly, smile at her to show no hard feelings:) but do it only once. don't ignore her if she speaks to you, just treat her as one of the others. and lastly show u don't need her. good luck x
Guest Posted October 16, 2006 Posted October 16, 2006 ok, look good, smell good and look very happy. secondly, smile at her to show no hard feelings:) but do it only once. don't ignore her if she speaks to you, just treat her as one of the others. and lastly show u don't need her. good luck x ok, ill try to show that i dont need her... but its soo hard. its just ridiculous that i put so much into it, and she would rather start fresh with another guy...
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