whichwayisup Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 You need to now keep busy and stop thinking so much about the MM. Yeah I'm sure easier said than done, but you gotta just stop wondering what he is thinking, feeling or anything! Focus on yourself, your husband and children.
Author forbidden fruit Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 I know easier said then done because he seems to show up everywhere I am . He broke it off yesterday and then wanted me back all in 20 minutes he said we need to cool it off until i figure things out and I said I will turn it all the way off and then he could not handle that. He backpeddled and told me he loved me, etc. etc. and for me not to end it. What a manipulator so that is what led us to NC or at least me to it. I feel like I am always the stong one. He needs to grow up !!! My heart hurts so badly it is hard to focus on anything, however my brain is fully aware of the right thing to do.
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