jillybabes Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 i won't post the history again as i did that a while ago. but after 3 years of being a couple although not calling it that, the bloke who is an alcoholic retard, who treated me badly, has now found someone else dumb enough (she's german!) to put up with him. she's living on his floor whilst buying a flat, and for the last few times when she's been away, he's called me to come over. now i've played it very cool. i've seen him when he called to prove to myself she is nothing special and he'll cheat on her too (and he did. a LOT.) and because he is such a loser that i miss him a lot less when he's there than when he's not! i never ever ever email, call or text. so i saw him about 10 days ago and he said it wasn't going well with her and she wasn't what he thought she was... he was going on holiday by himself... blah blah. of course, i found out today he's gone with her. and now instead of being proud of myself for not looking like a psycho or like i care, i am thinking that never getting in contact just lets him off far too easily!!! should i text and say: hope you're having a lovely holiday. i am going out with victoria (the mutual "friend" of his, hers and mine who set them up, despite both victoria and the german knowing all about me and him) and i really hope i don't mention having seen you, but gosh i can't promise anything... or do i thank god i'm well out of it and let das german 'ho realise what she's taken on?!
simon_uk Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 No you shoudnt text, what would be the point. He treated you badly as you said, he is with somebody else and he he is away on holiday with her. Why would you want to say "you hope he is having a lovely holiday"? If you must text him, how about something along the lines of "hope its going **** for you, you freakin retard, good riddance scum bag" or better still just say nothing at all and leave him to his unhappy life.
db75 Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 Don't text him. There's no reason to do so. You would only be feeding his ego and it wouldn't do you any good.
Cheshire Cat Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 Please do not text anything of that sort. If you want to do something to get back at him, you can try to warn his current girlfriend about what kind of guy he really is. If you feel like doing anything like this, be very upfront with her. She might not believe you, you will certainly look like a vindicative ex-gf, but at least it will be a relatively honorable way of retaliating (if there can be one) and you'll have done a nice deed towards this german girl, who could be just a person doing the same mistake you did.
Author jillybabes Posted October 13, 2006 Author Posted October 13, 2006 thanks guys. she knows what he's like, she knows he's hit me and he once left a g/f in bed to go f*ck a thai hooker in the a*s on a beach, and that he has slept with chinese hookers in japan etc. and in fact, on more than one occasion in the past, she has said to me, "what are you doing wiz him, he is so awful, he is ugly, you are so gorgeous, you could do so much better blah blah blah". but then they started hanging out a lot more, and suddenly, just like that, she's changed her little mind. she's basically either very naive or very calculating and has no friends in london, so she needs him (and a place to live). but she shouldn't have patronised me by saying that. so he's not good enough for me, but he's good enough for herself, oh yes. it's purely hurt pride, i do know that. i didn't want to end up with him, and i doubt that she will end up with him. but because i'm hurting, i want to hurt them both! bah, three years wasted, relationships suck, where's the nearest convent?!
Author jillybabes Posted October 13, 2006 Author Posted October 13, 2006 "hope its going **** for you, you freakin retard, good riddance scum bag" but i do like this, ha ha ha. my flatmate said this: [sIZE=2]"he'll get his - god dammit isn't he suffering enough already- he is an ugly festy sad loser with a dull disinterested german gold digger whore who has no option but to stay with him otherwise she'll be homeless..." and it is comments like these two that make me laugh, see the funny side and then feel absolutely fine again! [/sIZE]
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