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I've been with the same woman for several years. We loved each other very much. I still love her but I did something unforgivable. I cheated on her. I felt so bad about it I actually told her about it. Our relationship was built on trust and honesty. I broke both those principles and I thought the only thing I could do to begin to get it back is to tell her. My friends said I was crazy. Maybe their right. But she is done with me. Obviously I wish I could take it back. I have told her repeatedly how sorry I am but it really doesn't matter because I really hurt her. I know if she were to take me back I would never make that mistake again. But I don't know if I'll ever get that chance. Is it hopeless? How can I save this relationship and be with the woman I love again?

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go watch the first kiss.. and you i know you know this but.. if you loved someone why'd ja cheat

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Words have meaning, and actions have consequences.

 

It may be that you will never even get a chance to rebuild trust and honesty with your GF. Cheating may be a deal breaker for her (it is for me).

 

Worst case you have learned a valuable lesson. If you are happy at home.. keep it at home.

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Obviously I screwed up. No reason I give is sufficient. It's inexcusable. I don't blame her at all. She's hurt and it's my fault. If she were to take me back it would NEVER happen again, but I don't know if I'll ever get the chance to prove that to her. I've repented and I've asked her for her forgiveness. i don't know what else to do.

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Well, a relationship is built on trust. Sometimes you have to make a sacrifice in order to learn. This may ultimately be your sacrifice but hopefully you'll never do it again (with her if you get her back) or to anyone.

 

I have been in your boat. I was lucky enough to get my woman back and keep her. I even got to the point where we have trusted each other 100% since then.

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I've been with the same woman for several years. We loved each other very much. I still love her but I did something unforgivable. I cheated on her.

 

You get no sympathy from me. You deserve what you got. Leave her alone and learn a valuable lesson.

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