Tim Dog Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 I've been with the same woman for several years. We loved each other very much. I still love her but I did something unforgivable. I cheated on her. I felt so bad about it I actually told her about it. Our relationship was built on trust and honesty. I broke both those principles and I thought the only thing I could do to begin to get it back is to tell her. My friends said I was crazy. Maybe their right. But she is done with me. Obviously I wish I could take it back. I have told her repeatedly how sorry I am but it really doesn't matter because I really hurt her. I know if she were to take me back I would never make that mistake again. But I don't know if I'll ever get that chance. Is it hopeless? How can I save this relationship and be with the woman I love again?
Confuggled_one Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 go watch the first kiss.. and you i know you know this but.. if you loved someone why'd ja cheat
LakesideDream Posted October 13, 2006 Posted October 13, 2006 Words have meaning, and actions have consequences. It may be that you will never even get a chance to rebuild trust and honesty with your GF. Cheating may be a deal breaker for her (it is for me). Worst case you have learned a valuable lesson. If you are happy at home.. keep it at home.
Author Tim Dog Posted October 14, 2006 Author Posted October 14, 2006 Obviously I screwed up. No reason I give is sufficient. It's inexcusable. I don't blame her at all. She's hurt and it's my fault. If she were to take me back it would NEVER happen again, but I don't know if I'll ever get the chance to prove that to her. I've repented and I've asked her for her forgiveness. i don't know what else to do.
Abenaki Blood Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 Well, a relationship is built on trust. Sometimes you have to make a sacrifice in order to learn. This may ultimately be your sacrifice but hopefully you'll never do it again (with her if you get her back) or to anyone. I have been in your boat. I was lucky enough to get my woman back and keep her. I even got to the point where we have trusted each other 100% since then.
shawn_68 Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 I've been with the same woman for several years. We loved each other very much. I still love her but I did something unforgivable. I cheated on her. You get no sympathy from me. You deserve what you got. Leave her alone and learn a valuable lesson.
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