Author PWSX3 Posted March 16, 2007 Author Posted March 16, 2007 Happy 26thAnniversary to myself..... or as I put on my card to the dear wife; Happy 1st Anniversary..... Well it started last night, the W had an appointment to get her hair cut & colored and the gal that does it knows where our place is but not her place so she just came over here & had it done. Then she went home for a while and got her stuff to spend the night. Today we got up I made French toast for the W & she thru in some waffles into the toaster for me and cleaned some strawberries & then we went to MC after we ate. We got there a little early but when the counselor came in she had two roses for us & said Happy Anniversary.. Then we just kind of talked about how things were going then she asked the wife; are you hear to see if you are ready to work on the relationship or are you here to work on it and the W said; I am hear to work on our relationship & I said the same so it looks like we are now working on what we need to get back together. The counselor said; the percent of couples getting back together are very small & that she was very proud of us & that it will be work. She also explained that because we have been apart that there will be some work at moving back together because I have my place arranged like I like it & now the W will be bringing back her stuff. One of the other things she told us that we have to do is set down once a week & talk for an hour on issues such as; 1) Clutter discusion 2) Money, budget, where we want to be in our future 3) Alone time vers relationship time. (her time, my time, our time) There are more but you get the idea, just making sure we have things figured out before the W moves back in again. Then we went shopping and I bought a couple new pairs of jeans. It was so nice to try on a pair of 34" waste when the pants I have now are 38" and the 34" fit just right!!!:bunny: Then we stopped at Bed, Bath & Beyond where I had a $5.00 coupon and I bought a square skillet that I have been wanting for a while to make pancakes & grilled cheese on. Then we ate lunch & talked about some of the things we had talked about in counseling, came home & took a nap together since we got to bed a little late last night. Tonight I used my skillet & made us grilled cheese & tomato soup and now she is watching TV & I'm typing. I'm kind of tired with all the excitement & kissing & hugging but it's all good. One thing the counselor said was; it takes both people to want to get back together & we are lucky that we both aren't ready to give up. We just need to learn to tweak how it used to be compaired to what it will need to be & to make compromises that we will both be happy with. She also said the last couple of months have been very busy for her, she said because of the longer then usual winter (amount of snow) not being able to get out, etc. etc. that couples are having trouble or things are poping up that might not during the summer. I thought that was interesting. All-n-all it was a very fun day, exhausting even though we didn't do much but we are on our way. Gunny, just wondering if you or anyone for that matter have any suggestions on working at getting back together books? The counselor asked if I knew of any books that both of us could read together to help on getting back together??? It will be hard not having the W here this evening, but then Saturday I'm taking my son & a cousin snow shoeing and I'm trying the expensive snow shoes!!! It will be good to get out and enjoy the last of the snow.
dgiirl Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 PW, I'm thrilled to read your latest post! I'm really glad to hear you both are going towards the same goal now! When you first arrived, you were demanding instant results. Thankfully, you stuck with it and you are enjoying the fruits of your labour now Patience is the key!
Author PWSX3 Posted March 16, 2007 Author Posted March 16, 2007 The W spent the night last night so we spent ALL DAY yesterday & it was nice!!! There are a couple other issues that I need to read up on that our counselor talked about and that was; 10 commandments we have for each other, and that we learn to fight fair and just the little reading I did last night the fight fair came up many times so that is in important one. Something else I read was if you are mad at your spouse & you don't confront them within 38 hours I think it said then drop it!!! I will have to read that one again..... The W last night was kind of looking around & asked me; where is all my stuff going to go? That was something we discussed at MC, she is moving back in, but it is my space & we have to make it our space again & since I'm more of the clean freak I just suggested that when that time comes we need to do it slowly so it won't overwhell the both of us. Still have a lot of things to go over but I feel we are now doing them as a team.
ilmw Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 The W spent the night last night so we spent ALL DAY yesterday & it was nice!!! There are a couple other issues that I need to read up on that our counselor talked about and that was; 10 commandments we have for each other, and that we learn to fight fair and just the little reading I did last night the fight fair came up many times so that is in important one. Something else I read was if you are mad at your spouse & you don't confront them within 38 hours I think it said then drop it!!! I will have to read that one again..... The W last night was kind of looking around & asked me; where is all my stuff going to go? That was something we discussed at MC, she is moving back in, but it is my space & we have to make it our space again & since I'm more of the clean freak I just suggested that when that time comes we need to do it slowly so it won't overwhell the both of us. Still have a lot of things to go over but I feel we are now doing them as a team. PW, You have come to learn patience... and Now are showing much wisdom. All I can say is this... be the turtle... not the rabbit. Nice and easy... nice and slow... like a hot bath tube... dip your foot in... and slowly.. ease your foot and then body in... You know what to do... just make sure you do it...right?? I'm really happy for you buddy..:bunny::bunny:
Author PWSX3 Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Friday evening I talked to the W on the phone and she said she was going to spend the evening at her place so I said O.K. (even though I wanted her to spend it with me;)) and got ready to go to the gym. I did my workout then decided to go to the store to pick up a few things for Saturday snowshoeing trip. While I was headed home she called and just asked what I was doing? Then she said O.K. have a good one. When I pulled into our circle I noticed her car was there & when I walked in she was watching TV. I asked what she was doing there & she replied; I was watching TV at her place & remembered she had stuff over here she had to get so when she walked by her bed it looked pretty lonely so she decided to surprise me & spend the evening again Friday. That was a good surprise & I didn't mind at all. Saturday she decided to work since me my boy & a cousin were going snow shoeing. It was the two boys first time & we had a good time. It was pretty fun having to wait for two teenagers because they were getting tired & I was just doing fine. :laugh: On the way home they both fell asleep and slept most of the hour home. I was hoping that maybe the W would spend the evening again but she decided to stay at her place but I was fine with that because I had bills to pay today & I also need to change the oil in the car and I find it hard to get things done when she is around, we seem to spend more time making out and it makes it hard to getting me choirs done. She also picked up the book; Relationship Rescue for me so I want to get that read then I think she is going to read it after I am finished since it seems like I do more reading then she does now days... I just got a phone call from our boy & he was wondering when he wanted him & his mom to come over for lunch??? I guess she just can't get enough of me anymore......:laugh::lmao::lmao: We had planned on having supper last night but since we got back later & she wanted to see a movie we changed our plans. Next week I have Patrick so she will work more hours, get in some overtime so I won't see her as much. Things are going well I feel but there are still many things we need to work out & make sure we understand how each other feels.
mum2three Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Your post made me giddy! Seems like you got the fun back in the R. Most importantly, you both recognize that you sincerely love each other but there is hardwork and homework to do. You also are very aware of your own feelings and keep everything in check. We could learn a thing or two from you.
Author PWSX3 Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 Your post made me giddy! Seems like you got the fun back in the R. Most importantly, you both recognize that you sincerely love each other but there is hardwork and homework to do. You also are very aware of your own feelings and keep everything in check. We could learn a thing or two from you. Thank you very much Mum, but believe it or not I feel it is going to be harder then I thought. I thought when she told me she wanted to work on getting back together it would be like, cool move back in but more I look at it the more I see there are things we have to deal with first. We have both learned that we want our own time & space and that will be something we will have to figure out. We have both changed & it is almost like dating or starting over with someone new. Don't get me wrong I'm very happy that we are working towards the same goal now, but I guess it's just different then what I thought. This week is her late week at work so I doubt I will see her much, but we will see what she does. That will be a good sign of how much she wants to see me. I do have this question in my head that I guess I need to ask next time we are at counseling, but she has never invited me into her place. She always comes over here when we do things together. Is that normal or does that sound weird? I won't ask to go in, I want her invite me & I would like to see her place because that would give me an idea of how she likes her house as far as pictures, how it's aranged, etc. I wonder if maybe she doesn't keep it as clean as I do mine & that might be the reason why.... She has commented on she likes how clean and non cluttered my place is without the extra furniture in there. Just something maybe someone can share there thoughts with me.
AHIWON Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 I'm not sure what could be her reason for not wanting you to see her place. I wouldn't push it too much, likely doesn't matter much in the grand scheme of things. I just wanted to say I am thrilled after reading your last handful of posts. Way to go!!!
MoonGirl Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 PW, Maybe the thought of you wanting to see her place has never even crossed her mind. Or, maybe you're right about it not being very tidy.... I keep my place tidy, but if I didn't I wouldn't want to invite someone in! Maybe she also views it as her personal space where she can be alone. Whatever the reason is, I wouldn't push her to see her place. But if you really do want to see it, you could mention something like wanting to bring some Chinese take-out over to her place for the 2 of you. Make sure you ask her a couple days in advance so she has a chance to clean up if she needs to.
Author PWSX3 Posted March 21, 2007 Author Posted March 21, 2007 PW, Maybe the thought of you wanting to see her place has never even crossed her mind. Or, maybe you're right about it not being very tidy.... I keep my place tidy, but if I didn't I wouldn't want to invite someone in! Maybe she also views it as her personal space where she can be alone. Whatever the reason is, I wouldn't push her to see her place. But if you really do want to see it, you could mention something like wanting to bring some Chinese take-out over to her place for the 2 of you. Make sure you ask her a couple days in advance so she has a chance to clean up if she needs to. Will it's not the big of a deal, just one of those things that makes me go hhmmm??? Your idea sounds good since I haven't had Chinese in a while, but she doesn't like Chinese so it would have to be something more like Pizza. She called me today on her way to work and was telling me she wished she would have brought her dog over since she was working late. Then she said she was planning on coming over tonight & was planning on spending the night. I am excited that she is spending the evening but I don't remember her asking me if she could but she might have & I just missed that part. I just got home from helping my dad on his project, he bought a rolled Ford Excursion & we took the interior out so he could put a new roof on it and so now we are putting the interior back in & tonight we ran all the wiring, WHAT A NIGHT MARE!!!! Hopefully we can finish the rest in the next couple of nights so now I'm off to the gym. Been kind of crazy the last few days!!!!!
dgiirl Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 PW, I think this is something I might relate to with your wife. I think it's very possible that she feels insecure having you over at her place. It could be because she doesnt keep it as clean or it's because she's worried what you might think. It's easier to just go to your place because she knows you obviously like your place. It's a vulnerablity thing. I wouldnt take it personal tho!
Gunny376 Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 BAM! BAM! BAM! BAM! LOL! That's me banging my head against the freakling wall! No, Perry, I don't know of any books about people like you and the DW getting back together? You know why? Because they're aren't any!" Again, you and the wife getting back together is very, very rare. The books I, Lady Jane and others have listed ~ are the books for you and the wife getting back togehter. Its like the famed Vince Lombardi of the Green Bay Packers, and Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant keep re-enforcing over and over, and over and over ~ "What we've got to do here is get back to the basic fundamentals! You've got to learn, apply day to day the basic fundamentals of relationship and marraige 101 that none of us knew to begin with! You've got to read, and re-read them over and over and over again ~ always coming back to the basics and the fundamentals. And then set the goal of reading at least one if not two books about marriage, relationships, rommance, communication etc a year for the rest of your life. Even if its the same books over and over. I'm a big War Between The States guy, (most people call it the American Civil War ~ don't get me started) but I read and re-read the same books over and over ~ because each time something new is revealed to me. This is the case with the topic matter. The only problem I see is that you're so far ahead of the wife? As far as the wife not wanting you to see her place ~ easy. When you're single and alone ~ its easy to say, "Ah! WTF! I'll do it later!" LOL! One of the nice things about being single and alone ~ you get to do things when you feel like it. Its actually and enjoyable experiece ~ especially after having been married for "25" years! LOL! One eventually gets back to "a place for everything,and everything in its place" (usually after you spend six hours trying to find your car keys! ) but its initially kind of fun and nice to say ~ "WTF?!"
Author PWSX3 Posted March 22, 2007 Author Posted March 22, 2007 Just wanted to let you know I started reading that book Relationship rescue that Ilmw & Gunny suggested and I didn't know there was homework in the darn thing...:laugh: It was very interesting in that one part that you fill out the answers & then add your True & false answers & then total them up. I don't remember what the total was but it was in the category of below 11 which means; relationship is well above the norm and may have isolated areas in which you can improve. This gave me a good feeling when I read that because even after reading the first couple chapters I'm starting to learn; sure the W has her flaws & sure she might be slower at working on them then I am, but as long as we start working as a team I really do feel things will work out for the best. I know my W is a good person & she has a good heart, so just by me treating her like a husband should treat his wife then I feel things will be different. I know "I" have flaws & I know "I" can work on those so hopefully just by doing that our teater totter of broblems will slow down because it's hard to teater by yourself. Last night I had called her when she was headed home & in the conversation I said; hurry hurry hurry. When she got hear she told me she just about didn't come over because of how it sounded to her. What she didn't know is our son was gone for the evening so we had the house to ourselves, so I should have said; hurry, I have a surprise for you, or I could have said; can't wait until I can see you or anything except for what I said. Those are the types of things "I" still need to work on but it really helps me out when she share her feelings & that all comes down to communication and not being afraid of what the other person will say or think. This week is the end of the year for us so it's been crazy around work so hopefully once we get that all done then things will settle down and work & I can get back in a routene like I was doing except now I need to add time for the W in all that stuff.
Gunny376 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I'm on page 79 or so, no hurry! I read as many as six books at a time ~ so I drift from one to the other. I'm pass the myth section, and totally agree. I especially like what he had to say about his grandparents! Sorry about the homework section ~ but the say without the pain ~ there;s really no gain! I liked what he had to say about marriage therapist, and about the guy standing up and church and testifying and "Telling It All Brother!" Too funny!
Author PWSX3 Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 I'm on page 79 or so, no hurry! I read as many as six books at a time ~ so I drift from one to the other. I'm pass the myth section, and totally agree. I especially like what he had to say about his grandparents! Sorry about the homework section ~ but the say without the pain ~ there;s really no gain! I liked what he had to say about marriage therapist, and about the guy standing up and church and testifying and "Telling It All Brother!" Too funny! I'm only on like chapter three I think so it sounds like I have some good stuff ahead of me. Your right Gunny, if I didn't have the homework then it would just be reading and with the homework I am learning about us now not just "me".......... On a side note, last night at the gym I was talking to one of the ladies that I see down there often and we were chatting while doing the Elliptical machines and we started to talk about the Bolder Boulder. Now I don't know if anyone out there knows what that is but that is a "BIG" event in Boulder on Memorial Day & her & her husband particapate in it. She walks/jogs & he runs so she talked me into doing it this year...... It's a 6.2 or 10K (I think) race/run/walk so I'm doing the walk part since I can't run (bad back) but I figured what the heck why not, just something else I can say I did in my life!!!!!!! They are expecting around 50,000 people I think and they go in waves from 7:00-9:00 and you end up in the CU football stadium.........
Gunny376 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Well, to be honest, he's answered two BIG questions in my life? 1. Why be and get married? Answer: To have someone in your life to show you what you've yet to learn about yourself and life?! 2. Why doesn't God speak to you like He does those Tele-evangelical types on TV with more makeup, hair spray, and jewelry than ZaZa Gabor? Answer: The real question is, why aren't you hearing what He has to say?! "
Author PWSX3 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Posted March 28, 2007 WOW!!!! And I thought the separation part was hard...... I can see getting back together is going to be no easy task, I can't believe how much a person (me) can change in 7 months on what I want, how I want things and where I want to be in the future. We saw our MC yesterday and our homework is to work on a budget and get that lined up. The W has spent most of last week here & all of this week here, but she told the MC that she felt more like a guest then it being our place & part of that is because I have it clean, I don't have things laying around and she doesn't know where to put her stuff such as her purse, etc. The MC told her to just start doing her thing and see how I react and I have to agree we need those conflexs to see how we will handle them. The W did ask me to come see her apartment last weekend and it looked about like I figured it would look, very cluttered, just walk paths from one room to the other, but then it is a small place. I guess getting myself more fit, made me realize that helps in a lot more areas then just feeling good. It makes you set down at the table in the morning and eat a good breakfast to start your day, (the wife buys a baggle on the way to work) you clean up afterwards so the house looks nice when you come home, and when you go to bed you feel good about yourself. Gunny, I still wake up and tell myself I don't want to be that old person ever again so it will take some communication for the two of us to find a happy middle ground that I can except that will fit into my new life. Sex is one area that the W has improved in. She has learned that making herself feel good is O.K. that those feelings she used to get are good feelings so that is a good thing, but besides that just her being here for a couple weeks doesn't look like things have changed much. I do know I can keep the house clean the way I want it to be even if she is here, I can still eat what I want, it's just hard to see her eating junk food late at night. I know that is none of my business but it does "hurt" me to see her not wanting to take care of her body. Oh well we will see what happens in the next few weeks, she doesn't plan on moving out of her place for another couple months just in case, she wants to take it slow. We are planning on going 4-wheeling this weekend with the old farts (40+ group) so that will be a good time. She is even going to drive part of the way......
chadnickole Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Just to tell you, I'm happy that you two are giving her another go round I think that is great............Hope the tough times get easier and I hope that your wife can start to adopt your more heath concious ways!! Best of Luck, but it takes Work too.................If luck was all it took then well we would all be in the good graces I guess!! Take care Chad
ilmw Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 WOW!!!! And I thought the separation part was hard...... I can see getting back together is going to be no easy task, I can't believe how much a person (me) can change in 7 months on what I want, how I want things and where I want to be in the future. We saw our MC yesterday and our homework is to work on a budget and get that lined up. The W has spent most of last week here & all of this week here, but she told the MC that she felt more like a guest then it being our place & part of that is because I have it clean, I don't have things laying around and she doesn't know where to put her stuff such as her purse, etc. The MC told her to just start doing her thing and see how I react and I have to agree we need those conflexs to see how we will handle them. The W did ask me to come see her apartment last weekend and it looked about like I figured it would look, very cluttered, just walk paths from one room to the other, but then it is a small place. I guess getting myself more fit, made me realize that helps in a lot more areas then just feeling good. It makes you set down at the table in the morning and eat a good breakfast to start your day, (the wife buys a baggle on the way to work) you clean up afterwards so the house looks nice when you come home, and when you go to bed you feel good about yourself. Gunny, I still wake up and tell myself I don't want to be that old person ever again so it will take some communication for the two of us to find a happy middle ground that I can except that will fit into my new life. Sex is one area that the W has improved in. She has learned that making herself feel good is O.K. that those feelings she used to get are good feelings so that is a good thing, but besides that just her being here for a couple weeks doesn't look like things have changed much. I do know I can keep the house clean the way I want it to be even if she is here, I can still eat what I want, it's just hard to see her eating junk food late at night. I know that is none of my business but it does "hurt" me to see her not wanting to take care of her body. Oh well we will see what happens in the next few weeks, she doesn't plan on moving out of her place for another couple months just in case, she wants to take it slow. We are planning on going 4-wheeling this weekend with the old farts (40+ group) so that will be a good time. She is even going to drive part of the way...... I'll say it One More Time.... Patience my son.. patience. You have gotten to where so many of us would like to be... So DON'T!! lose your cool. Or a bunch of us will track you down... and smack you up side the head with Gunny's 2 x 4.. Other than that... your till doing awesome man.... ilmw
Dad_of_3 Posted April 1, 2007 Posted April 1, 2007 OMG !!!!! P, this has made my day ! I've finally caught up on your thread and all I can say is FRIGGIN AWESOME ! I am so happy for you, I think with all the work you've done its paid off for you. But as everyone else has said, dont let it sit now! I wont go on as I think you know the drill by now. LOL I know exactly what you mean by never wanting to go back to the person you where. Even that acknowledging fact is as always the first step. What else can I say? Mate, awesome, top work and keep it up ! Do3
Gunny376 Posted April 1, 2007 Posted April 1, 2007 OMG !!!!! P, this has made my day ! I've finally caught up on your thread and all I can say is FRIGGIN AWESOME ! I am so happy for you, I think with all the work you've done its paid off for you. But as everyone else has said, dont let it sit now! I wont go on as I think you know the drill by now. LOL I know exactly what you mean by never wanting to go back to the person you where. Even that acknowledging fact is as always the first step. What else can I say? Mate, awesome, top work and keep it up ! Do3 You'd be surprised how much we "Yanks" apprerciate you "Brits, Irish, Welsh. Scots, Canuks "Ausssies" and New Zelender's of the Common Weath
Author PWSX3 Posted April 2, 2007 Author Posted April 2, 2007 Gunny you are so right, it's nice to hear from people from the other side of the pond.... I also supposes you are going to kick me out since things are going better with the dear wife just like Dgiirl????:laugh: Last night the W & I went and bought a couple new cheap pieces of furniture for the bedroom. They are those ones you can put together but Kmart had them on sale, we bought two sets for the price it would have cost me to build one and they aren't that bad. Then I took the dresser I had in the closet out & put my cloths on my side to give the W room on her side to hang stuff up. She has been spending the evenings here and so far it seems like between me going to the gym & her getting in a few extra hours we don't see each other until 9:00 or later so that's about all we do is just sleep together. ;) Today was cleaning the bedroom, then the hall closets will be next. Just trying to take things slow and keep the house as clean as we can while we move things around. Our MC gave us homework that we have to set down and figure out the financing situation so we need to do that soon. Things are going well I guess, just a lot of changes again that we both need to do. It was nice just being able to do what I wanted without having to compromise with someone else. I also bought some new shoes this weekend for the big 10K walk in May!!:bunny: I'm really looking forward to that & it will be fun with around 35,000-50,000 other people, so I don't think I'll be lonely.... Ilmw, it's not as exciting as jumping out of a plane or scuba diving but it will be something I have never done before & it is something I am doing for myself and if I finish I get some type of paper saying I did it!!!!
Gunny376 Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 THAT'S IT BUD! YOU'RE OUT OF HERE! NO MORE POSTING IN THE DIVORCE ~ SEPERATION SECTION. When's the 10K walk? You just bought a new pair of shoes? What size? I hope you went up a half size than your normally buy. If not take them back and go a half size larger. If you're not use to it and haven't broken them in, you're going to be sorry! Make sure you get a good pair of extra thick cotton socks, and carry an extra pair with you. You might want to prep a blister kit in advance. Take this from a guy that use to hump twenty-five miles with a seventy pound pack, + flak jacket, helmet and rifle. You might want to invest in a "camel-back" Its for carrying water on your back. Not very big. You can get them in the sporting goods section (camping section actually) at WalMart for about $12. Then trip on over to housewares, and find your an ice tray for making "tube" ice to go into water bottles and "tha' camel-back" As far as the financial deal ~ I'd really encourage you (again) to look into Mary Hunt's "Debt Proof Living" program. It takes a long time and a lot of hard work to get to the otherside ~ but once there it'll pay dividends for life. I've mentioned it to you before. Glad to hear that you and the wife are doing so well. Just keep taking it slow ~ this ain't no horserace you know.
Dad_of_3 Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 You'd be surprised how much we "Yanks" apprerciate you "Brits, Irish, Welsh. Scots, Canuks "Ausssies" and New Zelender's of the Common Weath Thanks Gunny, much appreciated !
Dad_of_3 Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Gunny you are so right, it's nice to hear from people from the other side of the pond.... I also supposes you are going to kick me out since things are going better with the dear wife just like Dgiirl????:laugh: Last night the W & I went and bought a couple new cheap pieces of furniture for the bedroom. They are those ones you can put together but Kmart had them on sale, we bought two sets for the price it would have cost me to build one and they aren't that bad. Then I took the dresser I had in the closet out & put my cloths on my side to give the W room on her side to hang stuff up. She has been spending the evenings here and so far it seems like between me going to the gym & her getting in a few extra hours we don't see each other until 9:00 or later so that's about all we do is just sleep together. ;) Today was cleaning the bedroom, then the hall closets will be next. Just trying to take things slow and keep the house as clean as we can while we move things around. Our MC gave us homework that we have to set down and figure out the financing situation so we need to do that soon. Things are going well I guess, just a lot of changes again that we both need to do. It was nice just being able to do what I wanted without having to compromise with someone else. I also bought some new shoes this weekend for the big 10K walk in May!!:bunny: I'm really looking forward to that & it will be fun with around 35,000-50,000 other people, so I don't think I'll be lonely.... Ilmw, it's not as exciting as jumping out of a plane or scuba diving but it will be something I have never done before & it is something I am doing for myself and if I finish I get some type of paper saying I did it!!!! From strength to strength P ! Just awesome. You'll do the 10K walk no probs and feel a sense of accomplishment. Its all about choices and decisions. It makes my day seeing you do so well! Fingers crossed from over here ! Do3
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