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that night, should I get in there naked or just with my boxers on?

 

This happened to a guy on the incel board, and I'm wondering what the hell I'd do in that situation.

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Hmmm, I guess I could take my clothes off slower than her and copy what she does, hopefully I wouldn't have to take them off so slowly to keep behind her that she'd notice.

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Hmmm, I guess I could take my clothes off slower than her and copy what she does, hopefully I wouldn't have to take them off so slowly to keep behind her that she'd notice.

 

Copying what she does sounds like a good idea to me. :)

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get the girl first then we'll talk the details

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I can't get one.

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I can't get one.

then your question is irrelevant :p

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I guess. I just get so curious about things like this though, if ever a really awkward situation pops up into my mind, I'd really like to know what I should do.

 

I think the reason is is because it feels as though everyone else would know what to do, and me not knowing bothers me, I dunno.

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Umm, i dont know about everyone else, but i have never been in a situation where we say "Let's get nakid", and then we take our own clothes off, then sit in the bed and then get busy. Clothes have always been taken off slowly and one at a time. Usually it starts with an innocent kiss on a sofa, then some heavy kissing on the sofa, which leads to being hot and then some buttons get undone, then some more petting, then the tops get taken off, or pants get slowly undone all while lying down on the sofa or on the bed or what not.

 

Ross, since you are inexperienced, it's best to follow and let the other person teach you. I would imagine any woman you end up with, you'd have already discussed past relationships if you're planning on sleeping together. She's going to know your experience and it wont matter to her if she's still willing to sleep with you. So stop worrying about things until it happens. Get the girl first.

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I think the reason is is because it feels as though everyone else would know what to do, and me not knowing bothers me, I dunno.

the only way you can truly figure it out is thru real-world experience over and over...

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Dude, it'll never happen in your life so stop torturing yourself about it. It's like asking what would happen if suddenly you found yourself on the moon.

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A guy who read your post just commented with me that you think far too much.

I have to agree with him. :)

 

Relax. Go out to some place where you can be around girls. (and once you are there forget about the girls and try to have fun :laugh: )

 

Over-thinking hypothetical situations can easily become a way of escaping from real life challenges.

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Ross_K,

 

Question: How could you get yourself in bed with women, without having to approach her and engage in a meaningful dating experience? and Have you dated a woman before?

 

When the right time comes, the whole process will come naturally. Don't worry about it for now. You don't just jump in bed with a woman [unless it is a one-night-stand].

 

You should, in my opinion, work on establishing a profound connection with any woman that interests you. I understand you, currently, are having difficulties in this arena. However, if you start small and teach yourself the basics, then perhaps by then you could get yourself in bed with one.

 

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Dude, it'll never happen in your life so stop torturing yourself about it. It's like asking what would happen if suddenly you found yourself on the moon.

 

Yeah, that's true, I do go through periods (many months) where I just keep all that kind of stuff out of my mind, but it's hard to make it permenent.

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Hi Ross,

 

that night, should I get in there naked or just with my boxers on?

 

Either one would work for me :)

 

Ariadne

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Ross_K,

 

Question: How could you get yourself in bed with women, without having to approach her and engage in a meaningful dating experience? and Have you dated a woman before?

 

If I was someone else.

 

Lol, okay, I know what you mean. Say if I met a girl at a party and we were flirting and talking with each other all night and ended up making out for the rest of the night. At the end of the party when it's late and we're both tired, she may say would you like to share a bed with me? Or, for some reason we might just end up in bed with each other in some other way.

 

It does seem so obvious now that you would leave your boxers on, and I'm sure she'd leave her bra and panties on. I can't even understand why I didn't know before.

 

And, no, I've never dated before, and I've never even experienced a woman showing interest in me before. It's like I'm an alien or I've been born biologically different. :( :( :( :( :( :(

 

When the right time comes, the whole process will come naturally. Don't worry about it for now. You don't just jump in bed with a woman [unless it is a one-night-stand].

 

You should, in my opinion, work on establishing a profound connection with any woman that interests you. I understand you, currently, are having difficulties in this arena. However, if you start small and teach yourself the basics, then perhaps by then you could get yourself in bed with one.

 

Regards,

Sand&Water

 

Yeah, I'm working on it. :)

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Hi Ross,

 

that night, should I get in there naked or just with my boxers on?

 

Either one would work for me :)

 

Ariadne

 

Same with me but I'd prefer the former. ;)

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I guess. I just get so curious about things like this though, if ever a really awkward situation pops up into my mind, I'd really like to know what I should do.

 

I think the reason is is because it feels as though everyone else would know what to do, and me not knowing bothers me, I dunno.

 

Ross when that time comes, you WILL know what to do. Don't fret!!

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Same with me but I'd prefer the former. ;)

 

(Ok then, I'll keep that in mind :))

 

Ariadne

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Ross when that time comes, you WILL know what to do. Don't fret!!

 

It'll never come. :( :( :( :( :(

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It'll never come. :( :( :( :( :(

 

I suggest you Google 'self-fulfilling prophecy'. That is EXACTLY what you are doing to yourself.

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