exotic_virgin Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 It is this guy I was dating for one month. I broke up with him because he really crossed the line. Anyway two weeks later… His friend calls me to invite me to another friends party. This boy had not my number and got my number from the ex… But he was telling me that if I needed a lift there he would come get me etc… Anyway… Contemplating what to do!! Because I wanted to show him I really did not care… He did really hurt me by this action. If I went… Well he may think I want to get back with him… And if I did not… He may think I am so upset that I could not face him… So at 3:00 clock in the morning, I called his friend to ask where it was and his friend had not saved my number in his phone?! I went to the party with a male friend and left after 10 min. I did not flirt with male friend but I was trying to make a point. What was he trying to achieve getting his friend to invite me to the party?
Walk Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 I'm curious what the guy did to cross the line? Maybe the friend liked you and that's why he invited you. Not for the ex, but for his own reasons? Are you hoping your ex wants you back? Why do you care what he would think if you did/did not show up at that party? Honestly, if he was an creep and you dumped him, then he's not worth the hassle of worrying about. Just do as you want, and stop worrying about what your ex thinks. He's not a part of your life anymore. Unless what you were really hoping for is for him to apologize and ask you to take him back?
lovelorcet Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 Well walking into the party with another guy and only staying for about 10 min was the wose thing you could have done. Ignoring him would have been the best if you are not at all interested in him...
TattooedPrincess Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 It is this guy I was dating for one month. I broke up with him because he really crossed the line. Anyway two weeks later… His friend calls me to invite me to another friends party. This boy had not my number and got my number from the ex… But he was telling me that if I needed a lift there he would come get me etc… If he crossed the line I would not had gone to the party. I would have been pissed if my ex gave my phone number to someone else with out my permission which would give me a number 2 reason to not go to the party. Anyway… Contemplating what to do!! Because I wanted to show him I really did not care… He did really hurt me by this action. It would of been best to gone some where else and enjoy your time with other friends and ignore him. If I went… Well he may think I want to get back with him… And if I did not… He may think I am so upset that I could not face him… if you did not... he may had been in limbo and just figure you were not interested which would have put a sock in his little ball game. So at 3:00 clock in the morning, I called his friend to ask where it was and his friend had not saved my number in his phone?! I went to the party with a male friend and left after 10 min. I did not flirt with male friend but I was trying to make a point. I think you would made a better point and not showed up to the party gone some where else with your friend and enjoy your time. Being absent to someones charade. What was he trying to achieve getting his friend to invite me to the party? who knows! if he was a creep I wouldn't showed up. Maybe he wanted to rub your face into something or slip a ruffie in your drink. I wouldn't gave him the satisfaction to showing up.
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