Bamaboy2006 Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 Well the confidence I had gained prior to asking that girl out and after is gone. I thought maybe i could keep it going and for 2 weeks I did, but now I have totally lost it. Im back to being depressed, and dont really see any hope. I hate it how it happened, but cant do anything about it. Maybe one of these days things will change and I'll have better dating luck, who knos, but right now things just dont look to great, nothing but gloom and doom for now and it really makes me sad. it was a nice ride of confidence while it lasted.
flexible christian Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 wait for time to set the mood. same thing happen to me but it's the opposite. the girl likes me but she just lost confidence. it was my fault for not telling her how i felt and when i did it was to late and now i'm thinking i had a chance with her but i blew it and i regret it. to sum things up.. just tell her whats on your mind. It's worth it. maybe thats the problem, why you are loosing confidence, because you wont express your thoughts. give it a shot..and you'll see you'll feel better about it.
lovelorcet Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 You know the funny thing is you can really plan to meet someone, most of the time it just happens and it can happen when you least expect it. Look at it this way you never know what will come around the next corner and that is part of what makes life exciting. That being said don't get so down on yourself because you had an experience that didn't turn out the way you wanted it to. Learn from it, for example that you can feel confident and good about yourself, on the other hand don't get to invested in girls with a bf even if you think they might be interested. There are a lot of attention whores around your age and you have to learn now how to weed them out and ignore them. They become even more dangerous as they get older... Be yourself, be confident and even a little arrogant and be patient. Don't be disrespectful or an a-hole and you will have no problems finding a girl you will want to be with. Oh and dude, I hope you got a hair cut
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 13, 2006 Author Posted October 13, 2006 Oh and dude, I hope you got a hair cut Sorry but i didnt
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