Confuggled_one Posted October 11, 2006 Posted October 11, 2006 Hello guys, I have posted many threads before.. but now i think i am more sane and able to articulate my thoughts. I am just wondering if any of you could take your time to read what i have post and give me some input. I really need to move on, and this break up is definety hindering my growth. I had a gf since last year of may 21st. we have been dating for a good long time, and when it hit our year anniversary, we were officially broken up. before that, she had requested many times to break up, so i guess i should have seen it coming, no matter how hard i tried to keep things together. Well, since may 21st, 2006, we have been officially over and for the first two months, we were still very attached. we acted like a couple, but then i think it was more on the terms of "friends with benefits". then, startin of the fall semester from my school.. i think she has been seeing someone new. that really hit me, i became realyl depressed and really dependent on my friends. she told me before she was the luckiest girl in the world to have me, for me to love her, and for me to care about her. she told my friends that i made her feel so loved and secure. well, we've been going on NC for a while, and i completely stopped talkin to her last thrus. She called me this past sunday telling me she missed me, making me think of past events.. that made me really sad. Then, yesterday, i changed my phone number, dropped out of school, hoping that soon i can sort things out. her birthday is coming up, what should i do? should i acknowledge it? or ignore it? you guys think she will wanna come back? she post old pix of me and her on her myspace.. wth man. any suggestions would help.. a lot of people told me she is leading me on. she talks to me whenever she wants, and tells me she loves me whenever she wants. she gets romantic with me whenever she wants, and then stops talkin to me. really i need help..!!!! will she ever regret doin this **** to me? will she ever look back and come back? was changin my phone number a great move on makin her realize what she lost?
amaysngrace Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 I think changing your number was great. She sounds like she's got low self-esteem. She comes to you when she needs a power boost. Her saying stuff like "she's lucky to have you" makes me think that deep down she feels she's not good enough. For you or anybody else for that matter. I think when she feels low, she falls back on you. As soon as you build her up she's on her way again. I would keep away from her. She's mindf**king you dude. Cause her mind is f**ked. Find someone a little more stable.
amaysngrace Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 Oh, I forgot...in honor of her birthday...buy a present for YOURSELF
Rooster_DAR Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 Oh, I forgot...in honor of her birthday...buy a present for YOURSELF OMG!!! I'm going to fall out of my chair!!!:lmao:
Author Confuggled_one Posted October 12, 2006 Author Posted October 12, 2006 Oh, I forgot...in honor of her birthday...buy a present for YOURSELF LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ya that was hilarious..!!!! props to you. thanks for your suggestion. stayin away was the besT? you think she will ever try to find me again? i know i shouldnt be caring anymore.. but makin her regret is wha ti wanna do.. i hope she does soon though thank you for your reply however, i think she has self esteem now and she thinks she is hot and stuff.. i dont understand her.. but whenever she needs someone to talk to and she doesnt have anyone, i happen to be there and she calls. im tired of bein there for her when she needs it and her never being there when i need it. she says she cares, but she only imposes laws on me whenever i ask for her comfort.
amaysngrace Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 you think she will ever try to find me again? i know i shouldnt be caring anymore.. but makin her regret is wha ti wanna do.. i hope she does soon though You can't make her do anything. Quit driving yourself crazy thinking you can. You can only do for yourself, nobody else. Why do you want to keep being teased by her? Where's your self-respect? I've said it before and I'm saying it now...what you need to do is go get laid. It's as simple as that.
Author Confuggled_one Posted October 12, 2006 Author Posted October 12, 2006 You can't make her do anything. Quit driving yourself crazy thinking you can. You can only do for yourself, nobody else. Why do you want to keep being teased by her? Where's your self-respect? I've said it before and I'm saying it now...what you need to do is go get laid. It's as simple as that. LOL! ya i think i needa get laid again.. that'll def. make me feel better. yet i still feel guilty for even hanging out with my friends. that's gonna be a difficult one man LOL
Author Confuggled_one Posted October 12, 2006 Author Posted October 12, 2006 anyone have any more suggestions? :\
Author Confuggled_one Posted October 12, 2006 Author Posted October 12, 2006 guys, once in a while when im online, she msgs me sending me songs. does that count as breaking NC? she doesnt say anything except for thank you though.. so.. what does that mean... is she tryin to ease into the same pattern as before? any suggestions would help a lot. thank you
Rooster_DAR Posted October 12, 2006 Posted October 12, 2006 That is connection, don't respond. It's possible she is still thinking about you, but just let it ride and see what happens. Regards,
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