Guest Posted October 11, 2006 Posted October 11, 2006 im 17 and had my first relationship end a couple weeks ago. Although we fought alot, we had something good. i think. We got into a coupole of fights and it ended up in her breaking up with me and me sounding like some kind of pathetic loser, pretty much begging for her to get back together with me, or at least be friends. Now i realize how stupid i was, but still, im sad about it. I dont know if its the girl or if its just cuz its my first breakup. i hear the first one is always bad. but ive seen her talking to other guys and just like playfully joiking around touching them, like giving them hugs and all that stupid stuff, and i get jealous. whats wrong with me??? i wanna get over her SOO bad but its pretty hard. I knwo the best way is to find someone else but im too quiet to find someone else and i cant get anyone that quickley. She will start dating again probly in a few weeks. shes already been on one. At this rate, i dont wanna get more sad. i dont know how to get over it. what should i do? is it cuz she was my first and everyone goes through that?? or what?? idk anymore. thankyou. by the way, im not suicidal and crazy or anyhting like that lol. just a little depressed.
Mystic Gohan Posted October 11, 2006 Posted October 11, 2006 i dont think the bast way to get over someone is to find someone else cause you are only filling a gap that your last partner left, it takes time just like every other break up, i know it was your first so it will be your hardest i was with 1 girl for 2.5 years, my first everything when we broke up it honestly took me about 1 month to get over her, then another relationship lasted about 2yrs, it took me about 2 weeks, ipersonally think it is easier to get over someone if you breakup with them, please respond to link below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t101100/
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