Mimsicles Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 I recently started going out on dates with a lad who lives by me, i have known him a while but never really had an in depth conversation until recently, and he asked me on a date. Everything was fine we were texting ect, and he asked me to babysit with him for his brother, so i said i would. On his texts he kept putting, i'll never leave you or mess you around and being really nice to me. So i took it for granted that we were officially a couple. After our nights babysitting, he seemed a bit off with me, just a bit distant, and i got the impression he didnt want to be with me. I was confused! My friend then asked him if me and him were a couple and his reply was "not that i know of"????????? Are we together or not, and if not does he want to be with me. I just dont understand men!! I am 18 and he is 21 if that makes a difference, Cheers x
Green Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 HE ASKED YOU TO BABY SIT... yeah he wants you bad, he probably wanted to just totaly violate you once the kid went to bed. Did something happen where he didnt get as much alone time with you as possible. Did you just keep talking? Look this guy is probably picturing you totaly nude in his head right now I don't know if you can trust a guy who pulls smooth moves like inviting some one over to babysit, I mean its geniouse cheap and easy for him and lots of up close and personal time. As for him not telling your friend you guys arent a couple if you guys never said those exact words to each other he could come off as wierd if he just said it to your friend... doesnt mean you should worry and dont bring up how your friend asked and you didnt like his answer...
Author Mimsicles Posted October 10, 2006 Author Posted October 10, 2006 Thanks, all we did whilst babysitting was drink wine and watch a dvd, it was nice, i just wish he would ask me out officially as i really really like him:(
Green Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 drink wine watch a movie yeah he likes you, other wise it would have been drink water watch the news. stop worying everything is going great
Author Mimsicles Posted October 13, 2006 Author Posted October 13, 2006 Thing is, why has he stopped texting me and calling me??? I am confused he is being so off with me, one minute he cant get enough of me and the next minute he goes off me, or is this normal?? At one time i could see us going out, but now i feel were drifting apart :(
Green Posted October 14, 2006 Posted October 14, 2006 I dunno sounds like he's doing a good job if he does like you because what ever he has done sounds like your into him dont worry he'll call or txt he probably knows better then to just keep txting and calling all the time. even if for some odd reason he doesnt like you anymore worying about it will only make it worse for u
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