Lonelystar Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 I recently met a guy and we hit it off pretty well. After our first date he told me he liked talking to me and had a great time. However, we stopped talking for about a week, we would talk here and there but nothing to personal. Last weekend he invited me over to his place and cooked for me which was nice. However, this week he won't talk to me and seems to be ignorning me. I haven't botherd him to much because I don't want to come off as needy or desperate, but I have messaged him on aim a couple of times and he just replys to the question I ask ( i.e "how are you"? ...."i am good") and doesn't seem to make anymore conversation. He talks to my cousin, however, and it makes me wonder if his feelings just changed. I just don't get it. When we were together he was flirty and nice... I haven't dated in awhile so maybe I need some help in this department. Any suggestions on what it might be?
magichands Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 Maybe there is a pattern developing here...just kidding. If you choose to wait for him to ask you out again, then maybe you could try to make plans for a follow-up whilst you are out on your date. Do you think that you have made your interest clear enough to him? (In your words, if you are overly concerned with coming across as needy or desperate, then might you have been too reserved??)
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