hotgurl Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 So I don't know if you remembered my previous threads about this friend. She had just broken up with her BF of 7 years and was just all over the place. Sleeping with guys she just meet and she was depressed. Well she started dating this guys and was going ot move to New Jersesy with him. I stated my concerns being very careful not to say anything negative about him but just that I was concerned that she was rushing etc... Now she doesn't call me or write me much she won't talk about her BF to me at all. It sucks I feel like I lost a friends over a guy. She thinks I don't like him and honestly my firdst impression wasn't a good one. He remined my of an ex that was a bs'er but I wanted to know him more and put my intial impressions aside. She wrote me that she knew I didn't like him and I wrote back and said I didn't know him etc.. and apologized for making her feel that ways aying all that matter that she was happy and his is important part of her life and she shouldn't feel that he needs to hide him or not talk about him. I haven't heard from her since. It sucks to be ditched over a guy. I guess Alpha was right
Adunaphel Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 Perhaps she is not really ditching you - when some people get together with a guy/girl they really like will just disappear for everyone else and do not even realize that their friends might worry or feel ditched. Has she become distant just with you, or any friends you might have in common are not hearing a lot from her, either?
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