norajane Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 Having a woman in his life isn't important to him right now. Even if he likes you, it's not enough for him to actually be with you. Move on. IF he gets in touch and wants to go out, go. But don't expect him to become a boyfriend or anything more than an occasional date - a friend, really.
justagirliegirl Posted October 23, 2006 Posted October 23, 2006 I say forget about him. I don't think the first date went that great. He was probably just being nice. In none of his responses did he say he was interested in you. He just gave a non answer about being so busy. I would find it annoying if someone sent me the smses you sent to him after only 1 date. A little needy and intense after only 1 date. Move on and date others. He just isn't interested.
Guest Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 I am a fifty five year old high achiever and here is my advise that I would give my own daughter.First don't date someone who is so focused on their career that they have little time or desire for you. Second, here are some common traits of money motivated high achievers. Their drive to achieve is often fueled by a need to fill a void inside themselves. I have spent alot of time with the very rich and you will not find a more unhappy and screwed up group. They are greedy and self centered. They are ruthless, manipulative, and unfeeling. Often they are narcissistic. My money manager tells me that 60% of his married male clients have mistresses that he is instructed to pay.I could go on. My experience tells me hooking up with this group is not a road to happiness.
Kamille Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Move on honey. You deserve to get what you want in a relationship, and obviously, this guy is not ready to offer it.
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