babsie007 Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 I had been in a rlationship with a guy for 7months but wehave now been apart for 2 months with basically no cantact apart from a few text messages (they weren't nice ones either!). I was head over heels in love with the guy but I had always felt he kept a bit of a distance with me. We argued quite a bit over the silliest little things, but then we kissed and made up afterwards and had a cuddle and it was great! We done loads of things togethers, went away for loads of little day trips. Sometimes it was great, sometimes it was horrible!! I am asuming that it was just like any other relationship. Anyway... I always got the feeling that he was holding a little something back from me and I finished with him one day, butI suppose I didn't want to finish with him, all I wanted was for him to show me a little bit of emotion and prove to me that he wanted me!!! But it backfired, he got annoyed and we didn't speak. Anytime something like that happened, he always tried to get me back, but this time he was the one that told me to back off and that he needed his space. My fault I know... 2 months down the line and I can't get him out of my head still. After our 2nd date, I couldn't beleive the guy I had met. I really felt like I had met the guy who I was supposed to be with, and I had never felt no differently the whole time the relationship went on. I sometimes worried about because our starsigns are possibly the worst match in the zodiac (another stupid one, I know!!) but it was enough to convince me that it wasn't going to work. I rang him the other night and apologised for a few silly things I had done. He was great on the phone! He laughed it off and said it was fine and not to worry about it! He asked me if that was all I had called him for and I just said yes and we said our good-byes. I ended up sending him a text message asking him did he never miss what we had together etc... and he wrote back (which I suppose is a good sign that he didn't just ignore me!), he just said that he didn't understand why I had contacted him 2 months down the line and he didn't know if I was still playing mind games and basically he just didn't know what to say. I just really don't know if it is worth me sticing my hand right in the fire and maybe asking him to go for a drink or something and telling him outright that I miss him. I just don't know if I could take the rejection, or if he even will reject me. Sorry, I do waffle a bit!!
whichwayisup Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 Listen to your gut! You like him, but his actions and his words now are kind of telling you he's not into you. If he was, he'd be asking you out, wanting to spend alot of time with you.
Author babsie007 Posted October 10, 2006 Author Posted October 10, 2006 He is very stubborn though, he was always the same. And he wouldn't be the most forward type. And we ended on a very bitter note and both of us were basically too stubborn to call the other one. I don't want to get knocked back, but at the same time I want to know if there's something still there. You could sit and analyse him for hours and you still would never be able to figure out what he is thinking. It's hard to know if it's something worth fighting for.
Guest Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 He is very stubborn though, he was always the same. And he wouldn't be the most forward type. And we ended on a very bitter note and both of us were basically too stubborn to call the other one. I don't want to get knocked back, but at the same time I want to know if there's something still there. You could sit and analyse him for hours and you still would never be able to figure out what he is thinking. It's hard to know if it's something worth fighting for. If you want him, you have to stop being stubborn too. Call him, ask him if he wants a drink or something and try and make it seem friendly, and dont try to push him to some commitmenet in one night. Take it slow and see what he says. IF you really love him that much, do something about it, or else you might regret it forever. I wish I oculd have taken that advice a while ago, and then it was too loate for me. Dont make the same mistake. ( but i dont know your situation, so this is just my opinion).
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