Guest Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 We have now hit the three and half month mark in our relationship. In our courtship we teased and flirted endlessly until we thought we would explode. He was extremely passionate towards me and always talked about what he will do to me when we make love for the first time. We drove each other crazy! Our kissing was out of this world, and he always told me how much he loves kissing me..that I drove him crazy cause I was such a great kisser. I take care of my oral health..(flossing, brushing several times a day etc..oh and tongue brushing too) I make sure I'm all fresh orally if I'm to be with him. He does the same. I've noticed ever since we made love for the first time..(we've done it about 6 times now in the last month) that he stopped kissing me passionately. What he does now is flicker his tongue a couple of times in my mouth then moves to my neck to nibble. Throughout the session..he repeats this..except during the actual penetration he doesn't kiss me at all. It's like he's consentrating on the act instead. He also isn't very passionate like when we were courting and he talk the talk about all the things he would do to me. The love making isn't one sided...but it feels robotic on his part. Tonight he started kissing me and right away it turned into the passionate tongue kissing that we use to do. I was so excited...I loved it:) After he even said.."wow where did that come from" with a smile on his face. Then we started kissing again passionately. I just don't get it??????? I'm so confused. I'm wondering if he is actually a "lazy lover" and since he got me into bed he doesn't have to be exciting anymore? But what about the kissing? I have been so paranoid that I have bad breath or something and he's avoiding my mouth or something. Like I said I'm so clean about it..and even more so since becoming paranoid about it. Why on earth did he kiss me passionately tonight and not before? Very weird! I've tried to kiss him but I don't want to force my passions on him if he just pulls away and heads towards my neck. He is very affectionate other wise..and always grabs me around my home and in public..so he still is attracted to me. Any suggestions?
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