rwolf1984 Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 my ex and i dated for 4 years and we broke up about 7 months ago. this july we started hanging out again as friends. . .and a little more we slept with each other a few times a fooled around. . .when we hung out it was like we were dating again, although she said we we're getting back together. . .things were going really good. . .it was taking time, but the more time we spent with each other it seemed like the better things were getting. . . anyways. . . i found a way to mess it all up. . .i met up with her a football game and she was sitting next to 3 people sharing a blanket. from the left it was some dude, her, her friend, and then some dude. . .i was pissed and i told the kid to scoot the **** over. . .i sat down and she left. . .i was shocked. . .and it made me feel like something was going on. . .so i beat up the kid. . .my ex wont talk to me. . .she blocked me on aim, facebook, and my space. . .i sent 7 months of work down the tubes in a matter of 20 min. . . is there anything i do or say to repair my friendship with her? the friends that witnessed it were her new friend cuz she's at a new school, she goes to my college now. . .she is worried about her reputation. . .i told her i am sorry. . .this is what i wrote to her. . . X, I am an idiot and I didnt mean for what happened yesterday to happen. I really am sorry. It's not what I wanted. It seems like I just cant win with you. No matter how good things get whether we are together or just friends I mess things up. We’ve been good friends for 4 years and we’ve had a special and unique relationship. I really do regret doing all the retarded things I’ve done from the like the little things like being late to come see you or the bad things that happen that tear us apart. I shouldn’t have went to the game. I should have just met up with you a different time. I just wanted to sit next to you and watch the game. Yeah, I got jealous and I told that kid to scoot over in a mean way and that probably upset you, I am sorry. You’re a really nice, beautiful, intelligent girl and your reputation will be fine, I am the one that did something wrong not you. It's my reputation that got tarnished; I am the one that lost a great friend that I have nothing but love and respect for. I am sorry about what happened and I hope you can forgive me. . .I will respect your wishes not to contact you and I will stop doing work for your mom. I do care about you and I respect you a lot and it’s hard for me to show it. . .Hopefully one day we can laugh about all the idiotic things I’ve done. . .until then I will be here if you need me. You know how to get a hold of me if you ever want to talk. I am sorry XXXX. . . Your Friend, XXXX if anyone has any advice for this please lend me a hand. . .thanks
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