lovelifelust Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 Well ... i have just come out of a 2 month relationship "i ended it" that made me feel like i was on a rollercoaster ... and having sat and thought about it.. i am coming to the conclusion that i attract mud ... This last one it seems was a pathological liar and its no wonder i was unsettled ... you know how you know something aint right, and you just cant put a pulse on it ... B4 this last man i was single for about 2 yrs and have met my fair share of :owell lets just say men who pretend they are secure and ok with friends and have it together in them selves ... I need to break this cycle and am not overly anxious to try again, and have learnt a few warning signs " i am not insecure" being said alot is a sure fire one;) anyways .. i thought it would be good if i could get opinions on the do's and dont's and anything that can help break this cycle ... besides never dating or going out with anyone again ... I am to young to give up:)
laRubiaBonita Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 I am to young to give up:) Amen to that, sista!
Walk Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 Signs to look out for: Someone bragging too much. People who have to have the newest and latest, and are always in debt.Those that say "trust me".If you ask their friend the same story the guy told you and you get a completely different version.People who always have an excuse for why they aren't at fault.When you ask them to tell you the same story twice and it's different each time.Talk about themselves as though they are "special" and everyone else is flawed, or not as great.They can't back up their claims. ie: degree's, certificates, old momento's.They refuse to let you meet their friends.They claim all their ex's were sluts and whores, or some other term to say that they were too big a flirt, too solicitous of male attention...
Author lovelifelust Posted October 9, 2006 Author Posted October 9, 2006 Amen to that, sista! thanx laRubiaBonita
Author lovelifelust Posted October 9, 2006 Author Posted October 9, 2006 Signs to look out for:Someone bragging too much.People who have to have the newest and latest, and are always in debt.Those that say "trust me".If you ask their friend the same story the guy told you and you get a completely different version.People who always have an excuse for why they aren't at fault.When you ask them to tell you the same story twice and it's different each time.Talk about themselves as though they are "special" and everyone else is flawed, or not as great.They can't back up their claims. ie: degree's, certificates, old momento's.They refuse to let you meet their friends.They claim all their ex's were sluts and whores, or some other term to say that they were too big a flirt, too solicitous of male attention... thank you Walk thanx for the signs to look for ...funny thing was not alot of these are there ... not sure what he pays his mates but they seem to think he is a very loyal and good bloke... of course he didnt mention me to a girl that rang when we were at his mates and he told her what he had been doing all day ... he did how ever believe himself to be more important than others and had a big chip on his shoulder with how bad his life had been ...and do the trust me, and alter the stories a few times:confused: and brag ... kind of feel like a fool for not seeing it... i must have had blinkers on as my heart was on its way to him ...
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