happymom Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 well, i have posts regarding my situation in other threads. Long story short, my H hit on my bf in July.. i'm divorcing because he has a history of lying with regard to "other women". Anyways... we are living together still in our home until our lease is up Dec. 31st. He of course does not want to split, but I am going forward with my plan. He is out of town now visiting his brother. My son and I were working on his homework and needed to get on the computer. Lo and behold when I started to put the letter "a" in for the math website..I saw that some pornsites were in the history of the browser window. I preceded to go through the entire alphabet to see what would come up. Just about every letter brought up some type of porn site. For example "L" brought up sites about lesbian sex..etc. I began to cry because I keep stumbling on this ***t and I am tired of it.. I sent him a scathing email. We'll see how he replies..
Jane Doe Posted October 9, 2006 Posted October 9, 2006 Let this serve as another reminder of why you must end it with him. I hope Dec. 31st comes quickly for you.
Author happymom Posted October 10, 2006 Author Posted October 10, 2006 well..I sent the email telling him I know about the websites. He admitted to going to those sites (he never admits to anything) so that was a shock. He said he went to the sites because we were fighting and I was sleeping on the couch etc. He also stated that he didn't think we were going to stay together so... I am especially angry because either of children could have seen something that is not for children. I really feel like I HATE him. I will be able to move in to smaller unit Dec.1st. I have to go as soon as possible. Living here with him is so stressful. I'm agitated, and depressed. I was going to go off my meds (zoloft) because i thought I was gaining weight. I think I am, but more because of not exercising. I need my meds more than anything right now. I've been drinking too. I plan on stopping that as well. I'm thinking of staying with my sister for about 4-5 weeks. That way I can have space and come back to pack and move around the 3rd or 4th of Dec. I am so hurt and angry...
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