john1578 Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 My girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. and lately she's only been talkin to me to tell me bout this new guys she meet and tellin me what they've done. I know she's trying to make me jealous and i don't know why. I"m confused why she would be doing this when she broke up with me. Does she still have feeling for me?? What should i do in this situation, because i still haven't gotten over her and i would do anything to get her back in my life thanks
burning 4 revenge Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 something you have to understand about women is that they are mean
Cheshire Cat Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Stop hanging out with her and tell her to please stop calling you, since you don't have much time for immature people who play mind games - expecially for pathetic ex-girlfriends trying to make you jealous on purpose.
bchlvr Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Two possibilities for why she's trying to make you jealous:1) It's a degrading, disrespectful, manipulative ploy to keep you hooked. 2) It may also be a passive aggressive way of expressing anger: "You hurt me, I'll hurt you." Regardless, you broke up, put your energy into moving forward. Do not cause yourself more pain by allowing yourself to hear from her.
Guest Posted October 8, 2006 Posted October 8, 2006 Okay advice from a ...mean woman (only when provoked mind you). Don't player hate...congratulate. The next time SHE calls you. Don't call her. Simply act happy for her. Like, 'Wow, that is so great for you, maybe you will find what you are looking for real soon.' Then say something like 'I have recently met someone myself'. Don't offer any more then that. The unsaid is what will turn this sick game back on her. If she asks questions, just be distant and very general. She is beautiful and smart and she makes me laugh. (Not she is hotter then you stuff, that is petty, and most see through that). End the conversation quick with a 'hey sorry to cut this short but I have another call, you take care'. 'oh, someone is at the door, gotta go, talk to you later.' Don't agree to call her again or to meet with her, just cut the convo short with the ball in her court or up in the air. Yea, I think this would put a feather in her cap. It's stupid, and really you should discern wheather or not you want someone who resorts to this level of game playing in relationships. Good luck
Author john1578 Posted October 17, 2006 Author Posted October 17, 2006 Hey again my ex has been textin me a few times lately acting differently, not talkin bout what she's done with anybody, and she's added a pic of me and her on her myspace account for some reason i don't know why. i'm confused she acts as if she keepin me hangin sometimes, i want to know how to tell if she has feelings for me and what to do to win her back. I want her back really bad, i can't stop thinkin bout her. I just have too many good memories and don't understand why we broke up. I would take her back in a sec but i would make her wait a lil for she could she what shes done to me. I just need help, advice, knowledge on this situation I'm stressed out and don't know what to do, please help Thanks again
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