brighteyes Posted March 17, 2002 Posted March 17, 2002 I have a bit of a problem. In the last two weeks I have discovered that two guys that I go to school with like me. One guy dumped his girlfriend for me and the other one is willing to. I highly respect both of these guys and in the past have had feelings for both of them. Right now though I am unsure of what my feelings are. I am not sure what to do. I don't want to choose one and realize that I want the other one. I don't want to be thinking "what if" for the rest of my life. I definetly have to sort out a few things. I don't want to hurt either of them. I need to do some soul seraching. If you have any advice or have bben in this situation before please help me out. I need a neutral person to offer objective advice.
Tony T Posted March 17, 2002 Posted March 17, 2002 If neither one of them makes you very excited about dating them, I would say to pass on both of them. You don't seem to be looking forward to going out with either of them and you don't expression any passion about your possibilities with either. A guy who dumps his girlfriend in order to date you, not even knowing if you are interested, is highly unstable. Eliminate him immediately. I don't think you are really eager to date either of these guys and therefore I would advise you not to.
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