Guest Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 My bf went down on me tonight... I couldn't come, although I wanted to. I just couldn't. He got moody, got dressed, and left the bedroom saying he was going to go get a drink. I thought he was coming back... but he never did. And now he's sleeping on the couch. Everything was fine up til then... What's going on?
Tony T Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 My bf went down on me tonight... I couldn't come, although I wanted to. I just couldn't. He got moody, got dressed, and left the bedroom saying he was going to go get a drink. I thought he was coming back... but he never did. And now he's sleeping on the couch. Everything was fine up til then... What's going on? I think your boyfriend is an insensitive, rotten, worthless jerk who has no manners whatsoever. But then, of course, lots of women love and stay with jerks. My bet is there is an excellent reason why you didn't have an orgasm. You ask "What's going on." What's going on is that he is just being himself.
whichwayisup Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 His ego got in the way. Patience and getting to know a woman's body is what counts. If you're not going to cum you're, there isn't a whole lot he can do about it except enjoy the experience. What some men don't realize is, it feels JUST as good! Fact is, your bf is pissed that he couldn't get you to cum, = control issues and he took it personally. His immaturity and his ego, HIS problem, not yours. Plus, even if you want to cum, sometimes the mind isn't into it and the body is.
scammy Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 T is right there is nothing going... Except the fact u are having difficulties relaxing during sex. Have u 2 been having problems before this? If he acts like this because of sex, does he react that way in every day life things? Been there still go through it with my BF and he acts pissy on a frequent basis. Were 350 miles apart so the car has not left the parking lot lately and by the time it does well... Let him sleep on the couch and play his act he needs to grow up and act like a man not a adolescent. Life is not always perfect, were not perfect our bodies don't always function perfect. Stress can affect your sex life.. it can ruin it. Sex with someone who stresses you can really suck and mess w your head. Keep yours straight don't react badly to his behavior.
Guest Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 Everything was fine up til then... What's going on? He's immature. He doesn't understand that for many women orgasm is not the be-all and end-all and that just because a woman hasn't 'hit it' does not mean that she didn't enjoy herself. Try to explain it to him. If he is one of the types of guys who doesn't believe you and still sulks or takes it personally, dump him. Or get used to faking it often just to keep his poor deluded brain happy.
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