Green eyes Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Help us guys out. You know most of us need it. Just tell us three things that attracts you to us. I bet we will listen!! :)
samsungxoxo Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 1) Personality 2) Wanting to get to know my family, getting involves 3) Doesn't curses too much nor shows aggression, no shouting, none of it (then off course no history of ever hitting a girl)
katiebour Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 1. Ability to communicate openly, honestly, and sincerely- being able to talk about relationship dynamics and issues openly. My b/f and I can talk about any part of our relationship, even if it's embarrassing- it furthers our understanding of one another and brings us closer. Like when we both admitted/talked about our revenge fantasies for our exes. 2. Being assertive- walking the fine line between aggression and timidity. My b/f helps out with chores- we both contribute to the upkeep of our household. But he wouldn't let me walk all over him (not that I would ), and he asks favors of me as often as I do of him. A man who knows what he wants and needs, and isn't afraid to ask or make a decision is very attractive. But that same man needs to be open, aware, and willing to meet the needs of his woman. 3. Similar backgrounds/goals/maturity level- if one person is a party animal while the other person is thinking marriage, then the relationship is bound to get rocky. If one person is a Baptist while the other is atheist, that's bound to cause conflicts UNLESS both people are willing to live with the other's beliefs. If one person wants kids and the other doesn't, then trying to convince that person that kids is a good idea is going to cause problems. So when you are discussing your beliefs/goals/etc with another person and they respond with a "yeah, I think so too!" or something along those lines, it just reinforces your compatibility. But I think that first and foremost, there has to be physical chemistry to add to the mix.
Adunaphel Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 - Interesting conversation - Personality that is somewhat similar to mine. - Sense of humour that is somewhat similar to mine. (...I guess it sounds like I'm in love with myself...) - anything that would make my imagination run wild.
Jane Doe Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Awww, I can only list three? 1. Cleanliness (to include good oral hygiene, clean nails, and proper shaving habits) 2. A non-smoker (this is a MUST for me) 3. Employed
SoCalCatman72 Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 speaking tongue in cheek here 1. Bearer Bonds, with coupons attached. 2. High end German luxury/sport coupe. 3. A 10" d***
alphamale Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 once again the women give obtuse answers. you should ask men what attracts women to them, you'll get more straight-forward answers.
Art_Critic Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Confidence and Humor I have never struck out when I was exuding these qualities.. ever
Adunaphel Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 once again the women give obtuse answers. you should ask men what attracts women to them, you'll get more straight-forward answers. Are you trying to tell us that broads are attracted to you because you are handsome, wear 400$ shoes and drive a nice car and not because you are smart and charming?
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 looks first and foremost the way he mooves dream factor... and just to make alpha happy he has to have a big
Author Green eyes Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 :) Keep it up girls, you're making the world a better place. Even if you all do want 10 inchs!
alphamale Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 looks first and foremost the way he mooves dream factor... and just to make alpha happy he has to have a big well atleast you're being honest PRICILIA...
catgirl1927 Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Nothing. Everyone knows all women only care about money. I mean, after all, we ARE all the exact same person. Women don't have different personalities or anything. We'd need souls for that.
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 but also everyone, and Alpha For me I am more attracted to the man who may not be in your face so to speak but the one that sits quietly in the back round watching, waiting. I have not dated many men in total it has been about 6, they have been pretty long term, as far as lovers go, I prefer a man that is well endowed, for me and what I prefer they do make a better lover, and plus there is more to hold onto. I did date someone for about two years and he was so small and he tried to satisfy me and thought he did but I did not have the heart to tell him that he did not. He hardly ever took me to that place. But outside the BR someone that I can talk to, someone that will give me my space, I don't need someone to take care of me or all of his time, it is a connection and chemistry.
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 but also everyone, and Alpha For me I am more attracted to the man who may not be in your face so to speak but the one that sits quietly in the back round watching, waiting. I have not dated many men in total it has been about 6, they have been pretty long term, as far as lovers go, I prefer a man that is well endowed, for me and what I prefer they do make a better lover, and plus there is more to hold onto. I did date someone for about two years and he was so small and he tried to satisfy me and thought he did but I did not have the heart to tell him that he did not. He hardly ever took me to that place. But outside the BR someone that I can talk to, someone that will give me my space, I don't need someone to take care of me or all of his time, it is a connection and chemistry. and he has to have a big____
stoopid_guy Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 :) Keep it up girls, you're making the world a better place. Even if you all do want 10 inchs! That's absurd!!! There's NO WAY I'd cut off 3 inches for ANY woman!!!
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 That's absurd!!! There's NO WAY I'd cut off 3 inches for ANY woman!!! ha ha, as if
alphamale Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 There's NO WAY I'd cut off 3 inches for ANY woman!!! well duh! you'd only be left with half an inch it would be like a clitoris
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 well duh! you'd only be left with half an inch it would be like a clitoris jealousy... either alpha would like a clit or he want a 13 inch... LOL
Author Green eyes Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 That is all I have to say is WTF! Alpha doesnt want a clit does he? I wouldnt, you cant put it in anything!
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 That is all I have to say is WTF! Alpha doesnt want a clit does he? I wouldnt, you cant put it in anything! I was just kidding....
Author Green eyes Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 So pres.... Your saying that an average size guy would never be able to please you? What if this guy is everything you wanted but he was just average size. WHat would you do? Dump him?
norajane Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 :) Keep it up girls, you're making the world a better place. Even if you all do want 10 inchs! I know, I know, your post is tongue in cheek, but both this statement and your orginal question are insulting and inaccurate. The only people who believe women are attracted first and most to money and dick size are men.
pricillia Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 So pres.... Your saying that an average size guy would never be able to please you? What if this guy is everything you wanted but he was just average size. WHat would you do? Dump him? No not at all, I am not shallow, As I said I was with someone that was very very very small, I was with him for two years, it was just not meant to be, we both decided that we should let it go. He did please me however I was missing out. I am however more in touch with my body and what I prefer, my taste has definately evolved so to speak. An average size man would be able to please me, that is not all women want, at least not me, but I think most women would agree, he needs to know how to use it. Take two men both very similar in size shape ect ect but one of them cares what you want and how you feel and the other only cares for himself. I would choose number 1
Author Green eyes Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 Thats exactly what I wanted to hear. Its not to often that comes out of a womens mouth though. Sorry gals!
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