Frankthetank Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Hello all. lets get down to brass tacks. me and my ex split up about 3 months ago (i never really knew why we broke up she just said he wanted to be friends and that it wasnt my fault which makes me feel bad because i do blame myself. we never saw each other as much as i wanted) but when we broke up we didnt do the whole NC thing, we still talked alot but it was me who always made contact . anywho over the last few weeks we've really lost contact an although i do still txt her she hardly replies.. i even asked her if she felt i was being annoying but she said i wasnt so i continue to txt and whatnot and still she hardly replies... i dont know whats going on but i suppose all this is because, although i know i shouldnt.. i still like her more than a friend. part of me feels like i should just say how i feel and tell her that i cant talk to her anymore but at the same time im scared she'll agree and then what do i do i aplogise if this is all higedly-pigedly, not so good at typing how i feel
Cheshire Cat Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 but i suppose all this is because, although i know i shouldnt.. i still like her more than a friend. part of me feels like i should just say how i feel and tell her that i cant talk to her anymore but at the same time im scared she'll agree and then what do i do Just don't tell her anything and try hard to go no contact. Stop texting, delete her number. You'll heal sooner this way. Probably sooner than you think.
LakesideDream Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 Sounds like she's "moved on" with her bad self. Don't let it get you down to much, stuff happens when you are young and semi-carefree.
Author Frankthetank Posted October 10, 2006 Author Posted October 10, 2006 Well its been 2 weeks since i spoke to her now and although we broke up like 3 months ago this is probably the worst that ive felt.. well since the day we broke up aggg and she was the sweetiest, nicest and most stunnly attractive girl ive ever met i really would of prefered if she'd just told me the truth and not played me around for so long but i know she didnt mean to
loveinlife Posted October 10, 2006 Posted October 10, 2006 Hi FranktheTank, Sorry you are going through so much pain. I've been through what u have. Friends with the ex after we broke up. I've been plagued of my heartbreak until a week ago when I saw my ex with another guy, I guess her current bf. She's been playing me fool for that long and I had always wanted to get back with her. Now I know it's not worth it. However, in the beginning of the breakup. There were many chances with me to get back with her. I was just too foolish to notice them, as I was addicted to a online game, called world of warcraft. If you know you still have a chance. Show her how much you love her. Actions speak louder than words, your heart does not do the talking. All i know is that things happen for a reason, but don't give up until you are 100percent put into it. Atleast in the end, you know you tried your best. Good luck buddy!
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