emmaUK Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 me and my Bf have only been back 2getha a very short while.... we split up coz alot of crap happend n i found out he was talkin to a couple of females behind my back (although nothing went further then just talkin on msn and texting) n i felt the trust had been broken. we had some time apart n felt we really missed each other and wanted to be together and now we have been 2getha ... ummm ... a couple of weeks or nearly 2 weeks i think. it has been nice apart from a few disagreements about the way he is different when he smokes weed and me wanting him not 2 smoke it. he has just told me that he is going to a party tonight.... and i am gutted. i know i cant stop him from going and i know i just havta ride thru it and sit here feelin like crap wonderin what he's getting up 2. i guess it feels so bad coz we have only just got back 2getha n havent had time 2 build up the trust enuff yet n start feelin like he really loves me and that i am the only one for him. i know there is gonna be girls, drink and maybe drugs at the party.... i have a nite of pure hell ahead of me.... doubt i will sleep much.
Age18Male Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Why cant you go? Get drunk w/ him.. have a good time.. pass out next to him. No worries.. If you cant.. trust him... what else can you do? Call him later on in the night.. no more then 2 times or he will probably feel like your checking in on him.. and thats worse. Dont get too attached, its only been 2 weeks. Go out and have fun with your friends. It will take your mind off what hes doing. Idk.
Author emmaUK Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 i havent been invited .. his mates dont like me (my bf rekons its coz they are jealous becuase none of them ever get sex or girlfriends and also coz i take him away from them). also i have a 2 year old daughter so i rarely get to go out..... probably about once a month... so my BF wudnt invite me anyway coz he knows i cant get out coz i can never get a babysitter. so i cant even go out with my friends n enjoy myself... im jsut stuck in alone (AGAIN). ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Age18Male Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 "none of them get sex/girlfriends" Whats your worry.. i dout any girls will be there? Unless hes gay...lol, im sure you have nothing to worry about?
Author emmaUK Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 trust me there will be girls there.... its gonna be chav central.... theres gonna loads of drunk girls. i get well parro coz i know he cheated on his ex at a party when he was very drunk.
Age18Male Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Oh. Well. Just let him know your worried.. and if he tells you theres nothing to worry about... then trust him. Id be just as worried.. but since youve only been together for 2 weeks.. all you can do is trust him... now say.. 6 months down the road.. you could be like NO!
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