Guest Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 when i first met my BF i didnt first look at him and think he was really good looking like i have done with other guys i have dated. after i got to know him a bit better i started to like him because he was such a nice person and we got on well. i dont think he's unattractive but i dont look at him ever and think "wow he's so good looking". i miss really fancying someone and often wonder if it can work long term just on the fact we have same interests, he is really nice guy and he treats me good. i have started to have a lot of dreams about really fancying other guys (some imaginary, some i havent seen for years and others who i know who have girlfriends) and being so turned on when i know they fancy me back and just being desperate to kiss them and somtimes even dreaming of having hot kisses and sex with them. i wake up feeling really dissapointed that i didnt feel a feeling like that in real life. i so wish i could feel this towards my man, it would be the nicest thing ever. if i know in the back of my mind that a feeling i crave is missing, can it work long term?? can u ever really fancy someone who isnt the type you would physically fancy usualy?? im confused! PS. we have been together 11 months
Age18Male Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 lol wow your sweet. I dont even know what to say.. I know id feel like **** if my SO did that.
Slickkk Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 I think your BF is basically a wuss You are getting bored with all this 'nice guy' attitude, it just doesnt create attraction...does it???
Mystic Gohan Posted October 7, 2006 Posted October 7, 2006 just throw him on the bed and do to him what you do to those in your dreams, i would if it was a girl though.lol, please respond to link below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t100713/
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