kimokeo Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 My wife is moving out and taking my son. She doesn't have a job right now, and hasn't had one in over a year. I have been supporting her, but she also has been living off of an inheritance. We don't make enough money to support the kind of life where she can stay home with our son. I wish we did b/c I don't want him in daycare. She is moving into her own place b/c we can't get along. We both have agreed that we want to remain togethor, but work on our problems from different spaces. I am afraid to lose my son and my wife. But I realize this is what we need right now. We want to work out our finacial/custody stuff AWAY from court. She doesn't want to do a LEGAL SEPARATION. I don't either. What can we do and what should we do to protect ourselves and our son as well as our finances? I own a small business. I am willing to pay a fair amount. I don't make a lot of money. But I do pay for her Medical Insurance, Car Insurance and her Cell phone bill. What is recommended in this case? I love my wife and she loves me as far as I know. The separation was HER idea and I had to abide by that descision. Any thoughts? Lastly, I want to close in saying that we are going up and down... Happy and Sad... I am now sleeping in a seperate room b/c the separation feels so lame. I can't look at her sometimes... Sometimes it seems like things will drastically change once she is out... Once again, any thoughts? Thank you
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