mariomaniac Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 well theres this girl i like.... alot.... and shes beutiful. (well to my eyes at least all my friends say shes ugly but i just dont give a damn) but another person at my school asked her out and she said no. she looks at me often and seemed a little mad when my science teacher took me away from that desk. when i didnt know her she seemed to care alot if i killed myself and the next day i told her i was sorry and thanked her for saying i would kill myself and she was the only one who helped me out. we are now friends and i talk to her alot. i usually have to stay behind class and she looks at me. today i said bye to her and she smiled at me. how do i know if she likes me or just a REALLY kind person...
Yamaha Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 If you like her friendship then I would just keep it that way unless she makes a move towards romance. She may like you but she is being kind and helping you out at a difficult time in your life, Sometimes it is better to keep someone like that in your life as a friend. Lovers come and go but if you find a true friend then just keep it that way and enjoy it.
thelipless Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 hen i didnt know her she seemed to care alot if i killed myself and the next day i told her i was sorry and thanked her for saying i would kill myself and she was the only one who helped me out. umm, can you please explain this part, its making no sense to me whats so ever...
bella_girl Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 the lipless: I think perhaps he means that he'd said that he was going to kill himself and she helped him see that this was not a good idea. That she supported him through this time. Which he then thanked her for. mariomaniac: I knew I guy like this at school, whom I was good friends with and who would get quite depressed and talk about suicide. I helped him through a lot of these times, but it did scare me. I liked him and he liked me, unfortunately we were quite young (like 16) and never got up the guts to do anything about it. I was never sure if he liked me and was too chicken. By the time he decided to tell me his feelings for me it was too late I was at university and moving on. So if you like her... then ask her out... don't waste time. And also know, that people out there love and care about you, including this girl. If my friend had killed himself I would have been devasted and shaken to the core and my life completely different. Thankfully he didn't and he was a great friend at an important time in my life.
everlong Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]gawd - about 10 years ago i got really sick, bad depression, hooked on to anything that would bring me as low as possible, because there were things happening in the relationship that i totally understand the linkage to now. in fact, there were things going on at the same time - like a vibe that was dragging us both down without either of us really understanding...one thing kept in secret, pull this trigger, and lie pushed another trigger...well, anyhooo, u had to be there! so, i did some serious self punishing and this woman, even though she was just coming out of her own fog and had many issues that i was unaware of, still battled with me - that was amazing - i really hoped when she left that she got out before she got sick, man, i worried about her forever, i tried contacting her because it was intense and if she had gotten ill i was gonna fight just as hard for her as she did me - and i was not a treat, no one with an illness is and i made live hard - do u know how sick i had to be to treat the woman i love, the one helping me, with so little care. i was feeling empty that it took 6 months of work! that's why it hurt when she left afterwards - but i understand - i really do.
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