musicqueen1012 Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 me and my boifriend have been going out for almost 5 months now. We have been fighting a lot. sometimes they are little fights that last 5 mins, and some last 5 hours, and some last longer. I got him really mad and i hung up the phone. He called me back and said it was over. We talked later that night and were able to forgive each other. (for now) But my friend says that a lot of fighting means that it is getting near the end of the relationship. either one of us want it to end, but we both realized how much we have been fighting. we love each other,and i hope she is wrong
Rooster_DAR Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 me and my boifriend have been going out for almost 5 months now. We have been fighting a lot. sometimes they are little fights that last 5 mins, and some last 5 hours, and some last longer. I got him really mad and i hung up the phone. He called me back and said it was over. We talked later that night and were able to forgive each other. (for now) But my friend says that a lot of fighting means that it is getting near the end of the relationship. either one of us want it to end, but we both realized how much we have been fighting. we love each other,and i hope she is wrong Whoever told you that is not correct. Fighting at the beginning can be a good thing. My brother and his wife fought all the time, and after 20 years they are as happy as can be. I guess if the fighting never stops (issues don't get resolved) then yes it may be the demise of a relationship. Fighting is not a bad thing neccesarily. Regards,
Author musicqueen1012 Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 we have been happy all time. We never really fought. This is serious and we're just hurting each other. It jsut got this way
steve1977 Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 I agree with Rooster, sometimes fighting is a sign of passion within a relationship. To be honest I wud be more worried if you didnt fight because that would show a lack of interest, he still loves you babes !
climbergirl Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 I agree with Rooster, sometimes fighting is a sign of passion within a relationship. To be honest I wud be more worried if you didnt fight because that would show a lack of interest, he still loves you babes ! I agree to some extent.....no fighting can mean no passion. But fighting all the time means (to me) an incompatibility on how to resolve issues. I think it was Rooster who touched on this.......... a relationship where fighting, getting back together (and content momentarily to be in each others company), but not trying to fix said issues, is doomed to repeat the cycle. In the end....just more of the same.
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