ImInPain Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 you reject me = I want you.... I can't have you = I have to have you! NC = drives me nuts!! She rejected me and yes I want her, but wouldn't she want me to go NC if she is the one who rejected me? So if NC is what she wanted now I give it to her and she can move on and never think about me? I think she has found a rebound guy and it's driving me nuts. If Im out of the picture and he tells her all the things she needs to hear and how evil I was she will never even think about me. So NC is perfect for her. I wasn't evil. I just made mistakes. See my other posts please. You 2 seem to really be a big help to most on here and I would really like some of your feedback. Anyone else on here that wants to respond is welcome to also. Thanks everyone. You are all helping me through one of the hardest times in my life.
magichands Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 I think she has found a rebound guy and it's driving me nuts. I really don't know what to say, sorry. Try to keep busy? All one can really do is use the pain...to make sure that you don't make the same mistakes again.
Josalina Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 i am sorry to hear your pain, we have all been there at some point in our lives and i will agree it is usually the hardest, but learn for it if u can, remember everything is done for a reason. keep posting on here as the people r great, and just look after u as u know u need it.
D-Lish Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 If she asked for the break up- then yes, she asked for space. If you contact her, it will probably annoy her at this point. If you stop calling her or trying to see her- especially if she is used to you being available to her- then she will eventually be forced to wonder why you aren't calling. It's inevitable that it will eventually strike her that you aren't reaching out to her....and it will start to make her think of you. This is what they call the waiting game. You have to wait for her to contact you. As soon as she starts reaching out to you- you regain some power back. If she starts thinking you are rejecting her- she will want you back. That's the premise at least. If however, she isn't in love any longer....there isn't any amount of begging or NC that will bring her back to you. That is unfortunately the situation I am in. My ex doesn't want me back- so I don't contact him...it's been 5 weeks. Don't contact her- give her what she wants at this point. If you've been calling her and then suddenly you stop... it plants the seed in her mind that you are over her. AND, nobody wants someone to be "over them". Just be patient and keep yourself busy. How long did you guys go out for? What were the circumstances surrounding your break up? D-Lish.
Author ImInPain Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 Dlish PM me and I will send you the details. I have posted to much of it already and I dont want people getting pissed with me. I wish she would just talk to me instead of running away. She always runs from her problems.
D-Lish Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 InPain: You have to go to the profile/cp and switch your PM to "enable private messages"... I tried to send you a private message- but it said you're not recieving them. If you do that, I'll PM you my e-mail address too.
Author ImInPain Posted October 6, 2006 Author Posted October 6, 2006 D-lish I have not been on here long enough or I have not posted enough. Damn I need someone to talk to and help me through this. You and scout seem to both be very helpful. I am in a really tough spot and need all the help I can get. This breakup is causing major issues for me and I am not doing well. At least this site has allot of good posts to keep my mind busy.
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