joriel Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 If you have a second please have a look at my problem and offer any insight that you've got. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost a month ago because she said that we only had a good relationship and she wanted a great one. Over the past few weeks I've actually surprised myself with getting past that although I know that there is still work to do. My good friend considers himself a "player" and for the last few weeks has been juggling two girls, one of which he really likes (but she's kind of crazy) and the other that he dicks over because she really is a nice, normal person. I know that sounds weird but he's always an a**hole to the good ones. Anyway, just about all of my friends (ex, friend, and the 2 girls he's hanging out with included) go to a party every first Wed. of the month. So, last night we all went. I hadn't seen my ex in a month so that was awkward but I honestly wasn't as affected as I thought I would be...not even when I saw her make-out with another guy and then come over and hang on me (and kiss my neck). My friend was being his regular drunken self and was being a real jerk to the girl that I think is wonderful and being emotional towards the crazy one. Well, dontchaknow that eventually the nice girl and I went outside of the bar to talk about the whole situation and we ended up acknowleging that we have feelings for each other. We were at the bar and so didn't do anything besides kiss. She also gave me her number and told me to call her. When my friend and I went home, I passed out on his couch, figuring that I would sleep it off and then drive home this morning. About 1.5 hours after passing out, I hear my friend get cursed out by the crazy girl on the phone and later the nice girl shows up at his place. It's now 3:30am and I'm crazy confused b/c this is very awkward. I realized that I was sober so I started packing up to leave when the nice girl came out to the front room and told me, "I hope you're not upset that I came over, he wanted to talk.", we talked for a few minutes and then she psuedo whispered, "You really should call me sometime. Seriously." I'm freakin' out. I've liked this girl for a while and it pisses me off that my friend is an a** to her. At the same time, friendship means a lot to me and I'm kicking myself that I moved in on my friends girl. But at the same time, why should she be with a jerk when she can be with someone that sticks to one woman at a time and is really a nice guy?! What do you guys think?
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