MsBlink Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 It's been a while folks--hi again. Straight to the point: I'm preparing for my third long-distance relationship *rolls eyes* we're engaged; he's going to Minnesota to finish school this coming January; I'm staying in Michigan or moving somewhere else to finish my schooling this coming fall. No matter what I do, all "opportunities" beneficial to me present themselves in Minnesota. I'm kinda pissed with that, because the last time I was in a LDR EVERYTHING pointed towards where that guy would be and I pissed me family off and disappointed myself for changing my life to better accommodate that relationship. I KNOW, I KNOW, BEFORE YOU SAY IT, THIS ISN'T LIKE THAT RELATIONSHIP AND SHOULDN'T BE COMPARED....but you tell me how optimistic you'd be about possibly repeating the same mistake? The first time, yeah, shame on you...but this would be shame on me. The fiance knows how I feel about this and is supportive either way, but I feel like I'm bitching because he was willing to change his plans to be closer to me. UGH...Am I wrong to want to allow my fiance time to explore life on his own before we move in together and marry, or am I just being an ass cuz I disappointed myself in the past over some guy? ~MsBlink
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