LittleNikki20 Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 If you read my other posts my ex and i split (he dumped me) to go to thailand with his mate for three months. he told me he was unhappy out the blue and ended things with me, i moved my things out of his place, the same day he moved his friend in (thats hes gone away with). I found out that he basicly finished with me becuase he wanted to go back. I didnt contact him for the three weeks after we split i had a few i miss u texts but know we have done the right thing, have you met anyone else etc from him. he text me one thursday and said im going away on sat thought i should let you know. i replied saying thankyou for letting m know he said is that all you have to say to me blah blah. it was left that he was going and im moving on. Anyway he went on the 23rd spetember, 1st ocotber i get a text from him from thailand saying i love you, i miss you so much i know iv f*cked things up, id do anything to go back a few months, i miss you. i was so shocked i couldnt reply. he sent me another that nigth saying sorry, he asked me if id go there or he would come home. i asked him what had changed he said nothing, that hes felt like this for a while but has been too scared to tell me. i said to him if you felt this way you wouldnt have gone. he text me again on wed saying he meant what he said and that hed do anything to be with me again. i told him he was hurting me by these texts, that he has hurtme and that he told me he had done the right thing. he said fine i wont text you again! before he went away i saw him out once in a club and he was very abusive and telling me oh well thailand is booked now, trying to hurt me because i told him to go its for the best. Iv not replied to anymore of his texts. i cant begin to tell you how much he hurt me by breaking up woth me, and to find out it was to go away. i know its been long and its natural to feel empty right now but i dont understand him.
Divine Posted October 6, 2006 Posted October 6, 2006 Hey Lilnikki, i would say my situation is d same as yours, my ex dumped me out of the blue and took up other girls, because he wanted to be free. But its been 4 months 4 me, not sure how long it is for you, But im sure you heard about non contact, and this actually works, not as easy thing to do, i guarantee that! but you have to be strong, im a very busy person but as soon as i get a moment of silence, he pops into my head. Oh and you will never understand, so dont try to make sense out of non-sense. good luck
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