Guest Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 This may sound insane, but I have a huge crush on my "coworker." I put this in quotes because he works in the mail room of my office and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT. First of all, I'm not sure if there are rules or not against interoffice dating. Secondly, I'm too shy to talk to him (I don't even know his name!) Third, if I did magically build up the courage to ask him out, if he says no, I HAVE TO SEE HIM EVERYDAY! I don't know what to do because all of these things are telling me not to ask him on a date, but I also can't continue living like this. I just keep waiting to see if maybe he'll ask ME out, but I don't see that happening. I don't think he's even interested, but maybe I should take a risk?? HELP!
JCD Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 Become his friend and ask him personal questions one day at a time. You'll get to know him and then mention that you're lonely on friday night and ask him if he would like to watch a movie with you or something. If he isn't interested at all then you have to suck it up and move on. It just wasn't meant to be. If I was in your place I just couldn't see myself walking up to him and ask him for a date because that's not me. So I understand you being shy and all.
quietintrovertgirl Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 I can relate to your story because i'm about to give a male co-worker my phone number and email address so we can talk outside of work. I don't feel comfortable talking to him at work
ely Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 Ask him out there is nothing wrong with it. The worst thing might be that he will just say he is already commited and that will clear your thoughts and let you know where you stand or he just might say lets go for it. Good luck.
tinkerbell xx Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 same here, i know how you feel..... specially you don't know if he likes you or not....!!! It's getting to a point i think about it all the time! should i? shouldn't i....i should.. no no i shouldn't!!! all day long!!! arrgghhh! alot of my friends said forget about office romance coz if it does't work out it would be hell to work in the same place.. I don't know.... I LOVE U JIMMY! YES I DOOOOO!!! ..... lololol this is as brave as i could go.... lolol
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