Parky Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 She split up with me 3 weeks ago. I begged for the first week, and then went to NC. She initiated contact 2 weeks later, to tell me she can't stop crying and that she is very upset, and misses me alot. (this was on friday) The same thing happend on sunday, where she was textin me saying she she can't stop crying etc. I went round on sunday, and she was really happy to see me, and i was happy to see her too. We planned to meet each other on tuesday. So tuesday came, we had a fun day out at the circus, i could feel her getting closer and closer to me. She went to the toilet, and i heard her phone go, so i checked it, and it was from another lad, her rebound. I checked her sent messages to her friends saying she doesnt know what to do, i want both of them but i cant have both (me and her rebound). So she got back, after the circus, i had to mention it, so i mentioned it, i said who the hell is this other bloke. I mentioned the fact that she is trying to chose between me and him. She burst out crying and hugged me. A few moments later, we started kissing each other and told me she loved me and wanted me back. So we sat down and i had chat with her and her rebound. She said they had sex once, and he kept sleeping over at her house. (they have been friends for several year). She said they only did things like hand job etc and sex session once. This really, really put a dagger in my heart. Anyways, i went to her house after the circus. We fell asleep and woke up several hours later, and we started to have sex, and i can honestly say, it's the best sex i'v ever recieved and she said the same. I stayed over at hers that night. Today, i go round, and now shes saying she is confused, doesnt know what she wants. I asked her what her feelings are towards this other guy, and she said she likes him alot, but doesnt love him. I asked her if she loves me and she said yes, lots and wanted to get back with me. I told her i don't want to carry on like this, it's hurting me too much, she started crying again. So i asked her if she could make her mind up, otherwise i'm pulling away from all this crap. I'm going round to see her tonight, and if she's the same im going to have to pull away. I do want to get back with her, i want to give it another go, but not with all this crap happening, it makes me wonder what if this and what if that etc. Has anyone got any advice? Anything i should mention to her?
alphamale Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 I do want to get back with her, i want to give it another go, that will be a fatal mistake...stay away from this girl, she's dicking you around. She broke up with you and she's crying her eyes out??? I don't think so. You are being taken for a total fool.
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