scuderia Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 hi guys, bascally my situation is a little bit different i used to be very close with this girl with whom i liked, but to make the story short, she could'nt be bothered much with me after she got to know someone. She became a different person. When i ask her out, she says shes bz, when i sms her to chat, she dosent reply after 2 or 3 smses. But if i dun msn or sms her, she will come and ask me y i dun msg her n come and talk to her. But if i do its the same thing all over again. Basically i dun understand y she doent reply much when i try to make conversation, but if i dun shes not too pleased about it. She wnats the attention, and when i give it to her, she behaves like a biatch, when i dun give, shes not happy. Anyway long ago told me i dunno who the new friend was. but in july i found out shes attached to him and she din even tell me. I found out thru another person and surprise, i do know him, hes rich with money but she told me i do not know who he is. i was damn heartbroken. i also realised that she was juz treating me like a fool who is always there for her when she runs into problems. this explained why suddenly she becomes very nice and suddenly she cant be bothered. of coz it was dependent on how things were bet her and her guy. and she din tell me alot of things. she never told me shes attached. im supposed to think of her as single. she went overseas with him and never tell me. basially very very dissapointed. But the prob here is, every once in awhile she will msg me juz to show me that she never totally ignore me. If she totaly ignore me atleast i will have a reason to accept it. But after all these i couldnt take it. I was hurt very badly and all. I wanted to get over her. So in this scenaio, i was the one who cut off all contant and started NO contact. I din even tell her that i know shes attached or asked her why she treats me like an idiot. So i wanna know if it was wrong of me to do that. Caus i Cut off all contact without even explaining to her. I juz couldnt take it that all this while she was treating me like an idiot for her selfish reasons. and the worst thign is she can always tell herself tt she does drop me a msg once in awhile and im the one who chose to cut off contact thus makign me the bad guy What do you guys think? Do u think it was right of me to cut off contact without explanation? or does she deserve it? and yes its been 2 months of NC, made some progress recovering but still abit stuck at the same time. The though of her going thru life without giving a damn about me nor feeling bad after how she made an idiot of me makes me sick until now
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