Confuzzled85 Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Hello, I have been dating this guy for just under 3 years when he decided to call it off, because we got together quite young and he felt like he was missing out on being young and wanted to be single. At the time he said he still loved me, so I offered him space. 4 months went by we talk and see each other, actually we still talk most days, and it was agreed as I didnt want to lose him from my life we would be friends. This was very hard, but is getting easier, Anyway I kissed another man it meant nothing, and to tell you the truth I was wishing it would have been my ex pathetic I know, he asked me about it, and I told him the truth explaining to him I would never lie, but telling him it meant nothing, hes since gone into some sort of depression we had a long chat and hes worried hes made the wrong decision, and keep saying you dont know what will happen in the future, I could spend the rest of my life with you but just not now. It feels as if im second best, Like he wants to have his fun (and not necessarily sleep around hes not that kind of person I have been the only person he has ever been with) and just pick me back up later in life when he wants to settle down! I dont know how to deal with this. I do want him back hes is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life, but what would you suggest do I go NC and see if he comes back, or stay friends and what happens happens I dnt want to live my life waiting but its so hard, when you have that glimmer of hope.... Please help
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