Bamaboy2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Ok I dont know if yall guys read my topic " I did it" but anyway this has to do with that. The girl I asked out that day seems to be showing some interest in me. I actually came to school afraid she wouldnt want to talk to me anymore after i asked her out and she turned me down cuz she had a bf or so she said. But today, as i was leaving biology class, she came up to me and said she was sorry for missing our study session i had asked for and so i said no problem dont worry about it. and then we went walking for a bit till our next class and she did some things that i thought were rather interesting. first she asked where i was from and then she asked how old i was and i saw her nodding her head. and then she kept hinting at me that she could have called me if she had my number so that kinda incinuated that she wants my number. and now she is really open towards me, and it just seems like shes got an interest in, i can almost sense it. Well guys I am going to hang on to this one because this seems like a real strong possibility based on what i have seen from her, that she may like me. I noticed that day I asked her out even though she turned me down then she seemed to be really flattered when I asked her. So yeah im going to take a passive approach to this, talk with her some more and see how things go from there. I know I have at least made a new friend with this girl so either way its a win/win situation. would you guys say im doing the right thing? Because i feel really confident about this, I mean I am giving an all out effort into this one, so now i believe im starting to come out of my shy shell I had been stuck in for so long, it really almost makes me have warm feelings go up and down my spine, its really wonderful.
Author Bamaboy2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Author Posted October 4, 2006 also forgot to say that im not going to force the issue, im going to let the situation come to me. I feel as though as if i have the ball right now so Im in a good situation right now and I think the passive approach right now is the best method to go with.
MadDog Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 What you found yourself is what we call your classic "attention whore." She's the kind of girl who likes to lead guys on and flirt with them just enough to keep getting attention from the guy so she can boost her inevitably low self-confidence. Of course, she never has any intention of being with any of these guys she leads on. You can do what you want but logic dictates that you will be disappointed in the end.
JCD Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 I would ask her out and if she says no then she is an attention whore. Then you'll know where you stand.
lovelorcet Posted October 5, 2006 Posted October 5, 2006 Welcome to the "friendszone" A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
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