shortnsassy Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 :confused: . A man has a live in girfriend for over 14 years. and she doesnt no all this time. then he has an affair with a married women for 12 years. my question is? Why is he holding on to the married women? still liveing with the girfriend.
IzzyisDizzy001 Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Quite simply, because he can. I detest cake eaters. He's spent 12 yrs making his girlfriend live a lie. If he had any feeling for her at all he would of be concerned enough for her happiness to say, "You have been an important part of my life and I will always care about you but I just am not in love with you anymore. I am sorry that I have to hurt you like this but I want to give you the opportunity to find someone who will love you in the manner that you deserve." Better yet, if he *really* cared, he should of laid all the cards out on the table once he realized he didn't want to be in a mongamous relationship with her and let her make an informed decision about her own future! I do believe that a human being can love more than one person in a romantic sense, however, I don't think cake eaters like him really care about anyone but themselves. I feel bad for this poor woman, time is one of the few things you can never get back.
whichwayisup Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 :confused: . A man has a live in girfriend for over 14 years. and she doesnt no all this time. then he has an affair with a married women for 12 years. my question is? Why is he holding on to the married women? still liveing with the girfriend. Cuz he is having his cake and eating it too. Living a double life, living a lie. He's selfish and couldn't really care less about the girlfriend and the married woman. He probably feels like the luckiest man on earth to have TWO women fulfilling all his needs...........
Author shortnsassy Posted October 4, 2006 Author Posted October 4, 2006 Cuz he is having his cake and eating it too. Living a double life, living a lie. He's selfish and couldn't really care less about the girlfriend and the married woman. He probably feels like the luckiest man on earth to have TWO women fulfilling all his needs........... OK i no this is going on with the 2 women. should i tell the girfriend about the married women or just let it be? let the boyfriend hang his own self. But my self I think theses women should no especially the live in girfriend. SEE this man had done me the same way and it hurt me so bad. just say i want to get even.
Raylene Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 Well, all I can speak for is myself, but I would want to know. And I wouldn't care if your motive was revenge against him. I am a live in girlfriend and I suspect infidelity right now. I am racking my brain how to find out (he is very clever). I can't go the PI route and I am trying to come up with other ways. It would save me alot of time and energy if I had something more concrete to work with, even if it was told to me anonymously. If his live in girl is like me, she is doing his laundry, his errands and all the things a wife does, while he is out screwing around, so I think she deserves to know (and I would be willing to bet she already suspects something), then SHE can make a decision as to what, if anything she wants to do with the information. And if she is a live in who doesn't have children with him, it isn't like you have the kids to consider as far as messing up their home life. So, I vote for the truth cause the truth very well may set her free.
Author shortnsassy Posted October 5, 2006 Author Posted October 5, 2006 i think she should no. he thinks he is superman and can get by with anything. But i have real prove on him and he cant lies his way out. I kept all his E-mails. he wrote to me at one time. just waiting for the chance.
Author shortnsassy Posted October 5, 2006 Author Posted October 5, 2006 Well, all I can speak for is myself, but I would want to know. And I wouldn't care if your motive was revenge against him. I am a live in girlfriend and I suspect infidelity right now. I am racking my brain how to find out (he is very clever). I can't go the PI route and I am trying to come up with other ways. It would save me alot of time and energy if I had something more concrete to work with, even if it was told to me anonymously. If his live in girl is like me, she is doing his laundry, his errands and all the things a wife does, while he is out screwing around, so I think she deserves to know (and I would be willing to bet she already suspects something), then SHE can make a decision as to what, if anything she wants to do with the information. And if she is a live in who doesn't have children with him, it isn't like you have the kids to consider as far as messing up their home life. So, I vote for the truth cause the truth very well may set her free. she has children by her x husband. But boy friend raised them they are adults now.
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