Guest Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Background Information: My most recent ex-boyfriend and I dated for about a month before we broke up. Why did we break up? Simply put: he's not ready. About 3 months ago he broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years. They broke up because of issues relating to long-distance. I like him. He likes me. I'm attracted to him. He's attracted to me. The interest is mutual, but he's not ready. I don't want to give up on him or us as a couple. How long should I wait?
norajane Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 If he didn't ask you to wait, you shouldn't wait at all. If he didn't ask you to wait, he may not want to date you when he is ready to start dating again. Or he may not be ready for a long time. Don't sit around; date other people. If he did ask you to wait, he should have said for how long, but there's no way he's going to know how long it will take him to get over his 3 year relationship, so I wouldn't have a lot of faith in that.
Guest Posted October 4, 2006 Posted October 4, 2006 NEVER EVER wait for a man. Move on to someone who wants you NOW, and would NEVER make you wait. Read "He's Just Not That Into You". The whole book is spot on -- exact truth of how things really are when we are too blind to see what is obvious.
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