chameleon2hold Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 so basically i dated this guy, we will call him bob, for a year and a half. things were great at first but over time we got a little sour. we didnt have the greatest conversations (i enjoy somewhat intellectual convos with my partners) and i was getting more and more restless about being with him. we went on quite a few breaks but it hurt so bad being apart that we got back together. well one day i told him i wanted a break to figure out what i wanted. bob and i had dated throughout most of my highschool carreer and i wanted something new. i based all of my decisions on him, i even gave up the college i wanted for him. this break was different though. he told me he had had enough of my **** and got a new girlfriend. this has been so extremely hard for me. i feel so stupid for not appreciating what i had. i cant understand how he can be with someone else so quickly. i dont understand how he can be over me this fast. maybe he isnt over me and he is just trying to with this new girl. either way its over between us, thats obvious, and he with someone else. that kills me, thinking about him kissing someone else and holding someone else when i cant anymore. how do i stop thinking about him? how do i stop wanting him back? it feels like we made a stupid mistake. that we are losing true love bc we are stubborn.... or maybe it was just an unhealthy relationship that needs to end. i cant help but still love him.
justaLUVR Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 i can see EXACTLY where you are coming from. im in your posistion as a guy. she broke up with me to date other people, and she moved on so quickly. what has helped me is that EVERYTIME you think of him with another girl, when you feel a thought coming on, immediately think of something else. it may take weeks, it did for me, but eventually you just dont think about it any more, and it will no longer bother you, hope that helps, best of luck
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