Ilovemango Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 My boyfriend broke up with 3 weeks ago. We were in a Long Distance Relationship for 2,5 years. He says he doesnt love me enough to keep it going. He doesn't see us having children or having any kind of future. He is also very unhappy about other things in his life. He doesn't like his studies, he doesn't like the city he's living in, he doesn't have many friends there. he is 25 and in a quarter life crise or something, where he feels his life isnt going anywhere... He didn't want to talk with me for 3 months. It's been 3 weeks now since he said these things and not talking to him is killing me! We used to talk every day! But thinking of phoning him hurts me, I wouldn't know what to say. I don't want to sound desperate either. I do want to let him know that i am gonna hate him if he doesn't do anything to contact me. Not even a letter or anything... I just think it's very selfish, he just decided the course of our relationship all by himself. I didn't know he could be this way. He said he didn't understand why I was angry at him, he couldn't help it that he loved me less??!!! But at the same time he said it was the hardest decision in his life ever. He didn't want to come over because it would hurt to much and he was scared I would convince him to stay together. It's like his hiding for me! What can I do? I do want to stay friends, but I think I'll start hating him if he doesnt contact me....
SmoochieFace Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Why do you think he's selfish? He broke up with you, he ended the relationship, it's over. Best thing for both of you is to move on... separately. And what do you think 'hating' him will accomplish? Do you think that would make him want to be with you again? Now... back to being 'selfish'. Think about this - do you believe your 'hating' him could be construed to be selfish as well? 'Hating' him because he will not contact you?
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