Guest Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I have always wanted to be a guys "secret admirer", like send him flowers at work or a little love note mailed to him or put on his car without him knowing who is doing it. Do guys think this is sexy or do they think it's lame? Has anyone ever done this who has some creative ideas?
burning 4 revenge Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I would think someone is making fun of me and I would throw the flowers in the trash and kick the trash can over.
Pyro Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I would think someone is making fun of me and I would throw the flowers in the trash and kick the trash can over. I know someone who is not going to get anymore candy or flowers..... Pertaining to the original question, I don't think that I would go as far as calling it sexy, but it is definitely exciting when you have a secret admirer.
Craig Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I have always wanted to be a guys "secret admirer", like send him flowers at work or a little love note mailed to him or put on his car without him knowing who is doing it. Do guys think this is sexy or do they think it's lame? Has anyone ever done this who has some creative ideas? Having been stalked by a 'secret admirer' for a number of years I might have an negative reaction. But that's just me. I think some guys would get a chuckle out of it but you really don't know what the target guys reaction is going to be. Why be a secret admirer at all?
SmoochieFace Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 That may work fine if you're young but, IMO, it's quite puerile for adults. I've had that done to me and it turned out to be a weirdo who was leaving notes on my car and on my desk at work. Bleh. No thanks. If a woman cannot approach me when she's interested instead of playing 'games' then she isn't worth my time.
tanbark813 Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 It would be fun for the first couple notes/flowers/whatever but it would get weird if it went on for a long time. And in the back of my mind I would also wonder if it's a gay dude or an ugly chick.
Spiderman Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 I have always wanted to be a guys "secret admirer", like send him flowers at work or a little love note mailed to him or put on his car without him knowing who is doing it. Do guys think this is sexy or do they think it's lame? Has anyone ever done this who has some creative ideas? All sounds a little stalkerish to me! I mailed a fake dog poo through a girls letter box one time, does that count?
beatlebob Posted October 3, 2006 Posted October 3, 2006 Has anyone ever done this who has some creative ideas? Maybe a rabbit in a pot? I dumped a sack of dog crap on an ex's porch when I was in high school.
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